Do you have a helpful neutral third party both of you can ask for advice/ help if either of you have problems?
I had a friend and my pastor who me/my wife will ask for help when we were having a tough time (we had to juggle renovating house, wedding, business, money issues)
In the end we found...
I myself came from an abusive family. Left home at am early age. But I take my parents as a bad example. How Not to treat my family. Doesn't mean people can't change. All about the attitude. If your bf willing to change then that's a start. Trust your judgement.
You will be better off with a independent guy. Who will stand up for himself and not let family drama be an excuse/reason for problems with you.
Me and my wife happily married in our mid twenties cos we don't let our parents get in the way of our marriage. Also helps we had a small wedding...
All these problems sound so recent and honestly quite minor. Try bringing up how you feel over a meal one on one with him. If he is willing to listen to how you feel and vice versa without getting angry, then great.
Honestly if you are going to be a wife one day, your husband should be your...
Go a pair la, unless you willing for your wife to continue f*****g guys behind your back for the rest of your life, divorce asap. And find a good lawyer, a nasty shark to get as much as you can.
Hope all is well with you now. Hopefully either your Bf grew a pair and learnt how to deal with his parents or you have moved on.
I personally have cut ties with my parents. It's after giving them much patience and chances that me and my wife decided to do it. They were creating many...