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pinkbuttons Can you sell your house? If your flat is a new flat, you can sell it back to HDB and of course 5% lower than the market rate. Sell it off better right? At least the mother doesn't enjoy it for free. Maybe they could opt in to buy over the flat.

Actually the FIL just expect someone at home and open door when he's there. Isn't there a letter box at the void deck? Maybe your hubby and you should arrange with his parents to collect letter once a week or whenever both of you visit them so no need to trouble your FIL to come over or...

Hi Melon Your FMIL mentioned that even if move out, you have to prepare a spare room for her to stay right? Ha ha ha! Good luck to you.

Your MIL no money? She took all your ang pow for wedding dinner and still no money meh? It's good that you made it clear to him now, let him sort the rest of the thing with his mother.

Hi Pinkbuttons Take your time to settle once and for all. You know your MIL well enough already. You are right, don't move back for now. Also better don't let her or your HB know your new address. Your MIL may be telling different stories to her relatives.

I'm not asking Corrine to take revenge, just that her hubby doesn't understand how the sick wife feels. He needs to have a taste of being sick and got dragged out of the bed to do something unimportant. I believe Corrine still have to put on smiles when she was sick and hear sacarstic comments...

Corrine Next time when your husband fall sick (touchwood) you drag him go shopping with you and carry all your shopping bags. Don't just go for 2 hours, make it at least half a day. This will make him feel how terrible he was when you fall sick and can't take good rest. I feel so sorry...

Hi Lilian I'm not a police but I've lodged 2 separate police reports before. I'm just suggesting that you prepare your own statement. However if you find it a hassle, OK forget about what I mentioned above, if possible can post your experience at the police station?

Hi Lilian Do your own draft of the police report then bring down to the police station. This would make your life easy. If you just go to the police station and wait for the police to take your statement, you will take at least 15 mins to explain to the officer then another 15 mins to...

Hi Actually there are many such jerks out there. You can help to let others preventing them to fall into one's victim. Lilian, draft your own statement to the police first. If not you can spend 1 whole day there just to get your statement recorded.

Hi Corrine Your MIL so strictly huh? But I think you will never make her happy right? so just let her be lah! You can't stop her from commenting so just do your thing lor! She can't simply restrict your freedom right? You are an adult so you know what is right or wrong, don't flare up...

Dear Melon I think this issue has to be resolved first before you look for another place to stay. It's quite tedious to do house hunting then pay a deposit then decide to call off the deal. If your BF give in to his mother request then what are you going to do? Who initiate to move out...

Hi Melon You have to discuss this with your BF. Is there anything you're afraid to bring out and speak to him? Settle it once and for all. No point busy looking out for an apartment if your BF may backout later. Anyway for if you are looking for private apartment with limited budget...

Hi I think better give it a miss for those around Amber road. More expensive than HDB flat even for a small unit.

Hi Melon Apartments such as Sherwood Tower are below $300K (Feb07) for smaller unit (77sqm). Can check out URA website under private Residential Property Transactions with Caveats Lodged as a guide. HUDCs are expensive because of the size of the property.

Hi Melon I refer to those private apartment without facilities such as swimming pool, gym etc. Normally the no. of units is less than 100, only have carpark and playground. Those HUDC may not be worth because some are condo status.

Hi Melon Go check out private apartment instead of full facilities condomimium. The price should be much cheaper.

Hi Melon Maybe you can check with your BF what does your FILs like to do or bring them out for a meal at least to show them you include them in your life and they will not be neglected during old age. At least you try your best to get along with them and if really you need to end the RS...

I doubt your BF can do anything to the folks unless he sell the flat and buy another flat with both your names. You have to consider your rs with BF if you are not willing to stay with his parents. It's cheap to get married but cost $$$ to end.

pinkbuttons Divorce him and recover $$ he owes you. Don't be short changed by the mother and son. The pinjin, jewellery and $$ you contributed to the wedding & renovation. Don't let them buy over the house too easily. Your husband is too coward and useless to do anything for you...