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    Wife having extramartial affair.

    Hi Yummy858 I'm sorry to hear that.. u mean they still carry on w the wedding and they are now officially married? Actually currently i am staying w her too, but i am not sure whether the person sleeping next to me is it still the person i know or the person i loved deeply..she seems to lost her...
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    Wife having extramartial affair.

    Another sleepless night with her sleeping by my side..but the distance seems so far aprt.. Miloice just fyi..i do not have much friend i can confide in..thats why often is people come find me talk because they trusted me..finding right people is easy talk..but i dun think i can find anyone like...
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    Wife having extramartial affair.

    In the past, whenever its durian season it will be the best time of our life..i will bring her to places where can enjoy durian to the max..yesterday i ask her whether would she like to go for durian fest, she told me she had quit durian for good..giving me all sorts of reason that she has put...
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    Wife having extramartial affair.

    I know some people might be thinking that i am trying to gain sympathy or asking for some comfortable..i cant stop u from thinking that way and if its too lengthy i apologies for that..but i am just trying to jot down every little details to share with people facing the same problem as me..i...
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    Wife having extramartial affair.

    Yup yup..thats why i say theres a saying in chinese.."nan ren bu huai nui ren bu ai".. thats why i have vow and swear that if this rs not gonna work out, i am game for it and will nv ever trust anyone else anymore..thats why people always say dun trust other people too much and i didnt get the...
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    Wife having extramartial affair.

    I have always been a very religion person and i know committing suicide is a very big sin be it in any religion..the person will have to keep suffering and suffering..alot of people who loves u may be upset and lots of people will scold u for being stupid, selfish and unfilial..stuff and...
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    Wife having extramartial affair.

    Haha..just let me be selfish this once..i have been giving and thinking abt people and.putting people infront of me all the time i think its time i be selfish this time and put myself in the first priority..
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    Wife having extramartial affair.

    Hi Shaboo..yup we went for counselling.. its at Bishan area.. till date i know she is still keeping contact with that third party secretly as its quite obvious with her body lang and she will be in toilet for long duration..i dont wan to face the reality and i really didnt want to end this...
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    What to do when your spouse tells you he doesnt want any kids?

    Hi Shaboo..i guess most man tend to keep stuff within ourself as we wont want to let our partners worried? Its a ego issue i think..its like man wont shed a tears and say pain and put up a brave front..does he drink? If yes mayb can have a lighy drinking session and let him relax and probe him...
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    Wife having extramartial affair.

    She has also been trying to hint me if we must really let the cat out of the bag, can we just lied and say its because our character does suit? Its hard for me..i dont wan her parents to be hurt by that guy..i dont wan the guy to hurt the woman i love deeply..i just want to tell the truth and...
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    Wife having extramartial affair.

    Hi Shaboo..Thanks for your advise..i am not that noble as you mention..just that i really love her deeply as she was my first gf and we both felt deeply for the past few years before married..we had went thru counselling together and she feels that the things they say are very general..so not...
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    Wife having extramartial affair.

    Hi Infernolord, i feel u..what is really wrong with us? I have been reflecting as it takes 2 hands to clap..i strongly believe there are things that i had not done enough..just that she keep saying its her fault and i had nothing wrong..
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    Wife having extramartial affair.

    Seems like girls prefer guys who boost alot and make empty promise although they know everything is just a smoke screen but they still believes..however its very clear that she will suffer and that guy will never treat her that well..but seems like she is willing to suffer with him together and...
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    Wife having extramartial affair.

    As she know all my friends and we have been very lovely..but till now i have not told any close friends or told our parents yet as i do not wan to stress them out..hence feeling quite stress up lucky got this forum to pour out my problem..any advise is welcome..once again apologise for my...
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    Wife having extramartial affair.

    Truthfully speaking when she come clean with me, if you ask me am i angry? Of course i am, but i am more worry about her hence i put my anger behide me and comfort her as i love her too much.. yup what puzzle me is also how come she can easily give it to a man who she know for 10 months and just...
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    What to do when your spouse tells you he doesnt want any kids?

    Yup shaboo, find a time have a good heart to heart chit chat with him..find out the root cause and face it together..maybe there are some issue that he is hiding..dont get the wrong idea, as a married couple both parties should come clean..
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    Wife having extramartial affair.

    Please be patient as this will be a lengthy post..2 months ago is our one year marriage anniversary which is falls on May, but that is also the most painful month that i had ever felt thru my 30 years of life.. We have been in a relationship for the past 5 years and we had completed a series of...

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