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This is all too familiar, you are not paranoid. Just a matter of time that you start to think much you can take before you walk out IF he doesnt change. The anxiety and insecurity will eat you up.

Hi Kellygirl, I decided to move out, cos the last 3 weeks at home was horrible, I was doing my own thing, sleeping separately, he comes home very late and when we do meet face to face his face was so fierce. He changed the wallpaper of his ipad from our photo to something else, taking the other...

Hi lostmypurpose, we were together for 10years, though throughout the years we have plenty ups and downs. This isnt his first time him texting another woman from morning till night and not sparing a thought for anyone else. The first time he did it was in 2016, after much arguement and crap...

Hi Kellygirl, Just read your post. I was going through the same as you, I have just walked out the relationship. I couldnt take it anymore that he was msging from the moment he open his eyes till after midnight. Kept telling me theres nothing going on. This is my first week alone, yes i miss...

May i ask if your husbands are now more attentive? more loving? and trying to make things work? sending you mushy texts randomly? My husband didnt cheat physically (not that i know anyway) but cheated emotionally, going on wechat and telling girls all sorts of nonsense and but i found out...

Miloice, newproject, infernolord - I thank you for speaking your minds and what I've read from you guys makes sense. I really value your opinions, The problem is really on me, my mindset, not being able to trust. I want to change, but the demons in my head gets the better of me. I've lost all my...

and no im not trolling....

hahahhaha newproject, thank you for your insight. I really appreciate it. I have been hurt too many times before and I didnt even "check on them" in my previous relationships. So im kinda protecting myself but made it worse?! yes you are right..I am complicated because i cant make up my mind...

Hi Miloice, what youre saying makes sense. It seems i am the one who wants to leave and wants to stay. I am confused! I have asked him for a talk but he wouldnt.

yes she is living overseas, but in constant communication. Worse is i found him going on dating sites too, when confronted he denies even when i showed him proof. we are 40yrs this year, and have been together for 8. Currently he is working odd jobs here and there. im not sure how i can get...

Hi All, My problem started 2 years ago when hubby stab in the back by his friend at work and lost his job. He was unsucessful in getting a job for a while and decided to start his own business. The biz didnt do well and we evetnually lost it in a short period of time. during the time when he...

Hi, Wondering if any singaporean staying in perth? and don mind having another fren?

hi all thanks for the feedback...i read every thread and thought about wat you guys said. Milo - i hope yr family situation is improved. so the situation now...i did try to put effort, small steps in terms of trust. but the demons in my head gets the better of me. I think those of...

Hi milo, thanks fr yr wisdom. yes i do feel that i have become too reliant on him. i really wanna stop all this insecurity, i dont want to drive him away. if i dont change, it doesnt matter love plays a part in the relationship or not. He has already given countless times to change. i...

i think since kids are involved it would be best if the parents and partners get along. no matter wat the parents still need to see/talk to each other for the kids sake. and whether their partner accepts or not they really do not have a choice. if they have chosen to be with a guy/gal with kids...

doll yes we are living together, but he would text and call me thruout the day. sad that little things like that that helps a relationship has to stop. now its all me wondering wat he is doing...

somehow i kinda agree with sm and doll...be alone since i cant trust and no one can harm me this way. i guess i really blew it. He has never not call or text me. its been a week. its hard not able to trust, its no longer whether i love him or he love me. without trust no relationship will...

Thanks cuclainne, i just do not know how to bring down these invisibe walls that ive built to protect myself. Like they say, how can a relationship work without trust...i cant be relying on him to assure me all the time. Its a mind game....sigh

Hi All Im with my bf for 2 years now, he is separated from his wife and we having been living together for about 1 year. He goes to see his kids every 2nd day. The issue is...i have trust issues. as becos my previous relationships i have been betrayed by 3 different bf. we argue over...

whaahhaha JO so funny.... Now i know y the gathering is at FOC places......hmmmm can see y? with a face like that......plenty of FOC food.