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Hi Wjchiang, I have been reading Powder's post again & again & again to constantly remind myself when doubts crept in. It is really not easy but we r still together. Powder seems to be real right on where my i stand in this marriage n what is going thru hubby's mind. Just tat it takes...

thanks Powder, u open me up to another world but i have yet to fully comprehend. cos i am probably too "shallow".... Hi Doll, i have been working almost 7 days a week for 7years as i m in retail line. i place cust more impt than family....when i come back from work at night, i teach my kids...

Power, u really make me open my eyes & understand now is not "CHEATING" anymore. Can u help me again! U make me realise n understand all his behaviour now. [HIS DOOR IS CLOSED TO ME AS A PARTNER] thats y he have all his mails to another address, never help me financially since late last year...

Hi power, i still love hubby even being cheated 3 times over the same 3rd pty. i told hubby i hve no courage to let him go or ask him to. i have been living in the dark everyday, not knowing wat he does or where he goes or wats happening....till recently about 3 weeks ago, hubby said suddenly 1...

Hi skylar, i really did that cos the woman ask me to look myself into the mirror n ask y am i holding on to this marriage. she even said time will tell hubby will leave me for her. And also hubby kept telling me left her n even shouted at me for doubting him, in the end.....tats y i lost...

Hi Juggler, u have the something that is impossible in my dictionary. In process of helping ur hubby to come back, how do u conquer your jealousy, suspicion & doubt. how to help over such long periods??? love is selfish & possessive & cannot be shared. How can u achieve it???

hubby claim he cannot bring himself to be intimate cos feelings not there.also because we have not been intimate for too long!!!! also he still have all the negative images of me shouting crazily at him..... To man who r not rule by their pen**, (pardon me) is it true?

Hi Green, hubby is very "clam" up. Refuse to be intimate, go holidays & much more. Claimed i have left him alone for 9yrs that he is so used to his own life. claim i am a stranger that he need to reknow me again. as i ve said, i m a lousy wife for 9 yrs. after our 2nd kid, we r intimate for...

Green, u r very right. Hubby said wat u mentioned before when he rasied the separation issue that the problem now is him. not me. he said i am probably nicest to him now than he can remember.but it has come too late cos he only felt sorry & guilty when i m nice to him. He said even when he...

so is there any 3 pty who care to share? Do u really dun mind being wif a married man? the 3rd pty is 39yrs, decent looking. If my sources is correct, in the process of divorce or already separated. they have been together for more than 2 years.

Or rather to all 3rd parties, would u 1 2 to be a married man that promised to leave the wife but has not for a year.......i have spoken to the 3rd pty since the affair exposed. she said y am i hanging on to my marriage as communication has broken down long time ago. she said time will tell that...

all the folks, hubby has surprisingly said give him time cos he 1 2 be wif me. but he is still reserved n secretive eg hide car keys n hp when reach home. As he has mention going separate ways thrice before, i m really grateful when he changed his mind now. but having been cheated 3x before...

Yes HBH,both hav wrongs which pointless to say now. told hubby will let the 3rd party co-exist so family will not be broken. Is been a month. Have told him is totally unbearable n ask him to choose as i hav no courage to end it.he says give him time surprisingly. Having cheated 3x, every day...

Capable all along for the past 9 years. but Not nice at all for the past 9 years too. Now still as capable, financially independent to support whole family. But started to be nice cos of 3rd party. realise her mistakes trying to make amendments, tyring to rekindle marriage, trying to salvage the...

Who will you choose. the 3rd party that u find true love in each other, or a 10 year-marriage with 2 lovable kids & a wife who is nice n capable but you have no more feelings

When trust is gone, if he is nice, you think he must have done something guilty.If he is frustrated at all you doubts and ignore you, you feel worse.