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Hi Nicole Let me try explaining “recognise your own value as a person, else u'll not be picking suitors who actually suit u, but rather, guys u feel are emotionally 'safe' for u to have a future with. He could mean you gotta love yourself enough if you marry, any guy you marry is bcos...

Me too... super sian... falling asleep! Happy weekend!

Huh ... when that chapter is closed... Hmm...how about she's back or she's mine??? My England not powderful as before esp at work. It's ok... sm is simple man. Simple man is simple basically. It's alright, I'm in the same position as you right now so can't really think straight.

sometimes I am in a rush. As for different threads I have posted, you will notice the timing is different. Somehow, for this thread I have posted the most. Sorry lor... can???

Hey guys Forget about the "why" can? I was in a rush when I type so I didn't really explain myself well. I have explained umpteen times. Losingher, why did you call yourself losing her when you're trying so hard to win your wife back? Not being superstitious but what you say is what...

Yes I understand but when she asked me again, I have explained and not just once. Ok got your point.

Yeah I definitely agree girls should have their own savings. Anyway men also have it these days. It's more like standby for kids' education or expenses for rainy days in future.

Quote from Dolly: It doesn't make sense to me. Why are we only putting efforts into "training" the husband after having married him? Shouldn't we put in more efforts to look for a responsible man in the first place instead? 1st, perhaps I haven’t been clear with the way I phrase the...

Doll For eg. you said things like "train" your hubby ..., even if you don't mean train theoretically, can you blame people for thinking that way? I was not the only one who think that way. Cow cow even mentioned it. I may have fault the way I phrase it, what about you? By putting them in a...

simpleman Can you also read the quote I asked Doll to read. I already said that I DID NOT SAY by asking him for allowance, I am instilling responsibility. Can you guys read properly before jumping to conclusion? Quote: "When we were growing up, once we earn money (I don't know about you)...

cow cow, I did not use the word "train". Doll was the one who mentioned it. Jonah, are you one of those who believe it is your responsibility to "train" your husband and make him into a responsible man? Doll, please read through this - "My hubby must give me an allowance. Why? When...

This concept of instilling responsibility was brought down from my mother. The reason why I said my husband should give me an allowance bcos he will be away most of the time. Hence I will be the one paying the bills and grocery. It doesn't mean that allowance is a dirty word. It's on a case by...

My father used to give my mum a few hundreds a month and don't care a thing about bills, grocery etc. In this instance, altho my mum is working, I don't think it's too much for her to take allowance from him bcos what he gives is just enough to substantiate his champagne lifestyle instead of...

Hi Doll Nope! I agree with Albee that bcos of the way my parents handle finances, I was brought up that way. I don't train my guy to be responsible. He has a mind of his own. However, bcos he's not good with finances, we are very open about what we have and what we're gonna plan for our...

Hi Ashley If the person intends to lie, he will lie even if you probe. Yet there are some fellow who give excuses like 'You never ask if I was married.' Lame but it's true. Hiring a PI is ex. In fact there are tell tale signs such as: he never give you his residential tel no he never...

Hi Cornelia Give him some time to cool down. Seems like the last thing he want to do right now is to see you. Perhaps he might give the relationship a second chance after he's alone. It'll be good if you can prove to him that you've changed for the better like maintain the flat well and...

Hi Closet I believe you don't really mind even if you have to share the bills and grocery but what shocked you is the before and after revelation you have acquired. If he really mean what he says, why would he be so calculative now? If he doesn't mean it, why does it say it in the first...

Maybe you should give yourself sometime to cool down before you decide if you wanna continue with your current bf. Perhaps you want to cosider being honest with him. If he loves you, he won't pressure you and would give you time to think over before you come to a decision. As for your ex...

Give that jerk 2 bucks, ask him get himself a kite and go fly kite!

Hi Doll Oh, let me elaborate. What my pastor said is, when women are angry with men, some women esp are capable of ignoring their spouse in order to let them get the msg. Sometimes it works when the men feel the cold shoulder. This is what he said. He touched her shoulder, it is...