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  1. wluyan

    Anyone have success stories after an infidelity?

    we had been together for half of our lives and i never have doubts of him. he was such a good man in front of everyone . even when he was overseas, he would say he was having meetings , exhibitions or talking to people work related. I was stupid to believe him. the years together made me stupid...
  2. wluyan

    Mindset of xiao3 (小三)...

    i stayed despite all the defects he has all the years. and he left because he didnt enjoy my cooking etc. its one of the excuse he had.
  3. wluyan

    Mindset of xiao3 (小三)...

    listen , there is nothing wrong with you and dont let those bull5hits he said about you to get into your heart and hurt you. my ex did the same to me, saying all rubbish about me . there is only 1 reason when someone wants to stay. and one will find endless excuses when he wants to leave...
  4. wluyan

    Mindset of xiao3 (小三)...

    i let go of my ex cuz of that too. although i am angry with her but I hate my ex more. i used to have lady friends who like to look for married men cuz they claimed that these guys are more mature and successful in term of work and financial. and they enjoy the thrill of victory stealing others...
  5. wluyan

    A sad daddy

    i agree with clem. have a good talk with her. worrying cant resolve anything.
  6. wluyan

    A sad daddy

    its sad to hear it. I sincerely hope it will work out well for both for you. and yes, hate to say, marriage is indeed more about responsibility and commitment especially when u have kids. most marriages go through this stage but i believe if both parties work hard to keep the family together ...
  7. wluyan

    Looking for a husband with surname Kwek in 20yrs time

    good luck to you, Mr Kwok
  8. wluyan

    Too much to handle or am I just too selfish

    if you have decided what is better for you, wish u the best
  9. wluyan

    Too much to handle or am I just too selfish

    gosh thats a long reply. im on the way to work. will read this later
  10. wluyan

    Forgive or not forgive?

    dump him! ...
  11. wluyan

    Deciding if I should proceed with a divorce

    or perhaps you can try to take a day off once in a while to stay at home to look after the baby so she can go out with her friends to relax.
  12. wluyan

    Deciding if I should proceed with a divorce

    if i may, suggest you both to go to a marriage counsellor. or both of you to go for a short getaway, even a movie or romantic dinner juz both of you to rekindle your love, have a heart to heart talk with each other before you throw the towel. please dont give up so easily. marriage life is...
  13. wluyan

    Deciding if I should proceed with a divorce

    Im not sure how was the situation before marriage and having baby, and not even now like who is looking after the baby at home. but the norm is the society tends to think being sahm is something easy. they have the vision of a lady as a taitai sitting on the sofa watch tv and dress up nicely ...
  14. wluyan

    Single divorced mothers....

    small star... take it easy. let nature takes its own course. its good to close the old book before reading a new one. give time for your heart and soul to heal.
  15. wluyan

    Stress by bridal studios

    mine was good. the people are very nice, patient and professional. they took good care of me when i was there in taipei. and we are still in contact till today. they send me festive greetings all the time. it left me very nice memories.
  16. wluyan

    Single divorced mothers....

    sentiments exactly. cheers!
  17. wluyan

    Deciding if I should proceed with a divorce

    this sort of decision shld be made before having kids. your kid is still very young, think carefully. in all divorce, kids are the ones who suffer. anyway, why did you marry her when you already knew what type of person she is before marriage? Love isnt about changing a person, its abt...
  18. wluyan

    Too much to handle or am I just too selfish

    i think there are many people who change without realisation as well after marriage, not necessary its lust during courtship
  19. wluyan

    Single divorced mothers....

    unfortunately the reality is it. most guys and the society are unable to accept excess baggage. hugs. u are not the only one out there with this prob.
  20. wluyan

    Too much to handle or am I just too selfish

    i know many wives/mothers who are not like that and also along the years of marriage when things start to break down, misunderstanding and misconception starts to arise, not because there is any fault with either party, but merely when u stop being on the same side as your partner, no matter...

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