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yes i sit his car but mostly on weekends. he don't send me to work or fetch me from work. most of the time i need to cab home. say if i quantify the expenses based on our income and claim from him, it's about there lor. like you mentioned earlier, right now he may not want to talk about...

i ask for that 5% mainly is to make him feel the pinch and i don't deny also as a show of my dismay for he always looking for an easy way out. i mean..come on, i work day & night to help him finance his car & our house but he actually want to claim groceries from me?? if he had not...

he said if i really worried about staying permanently at his mom's place, we can buy a flat 1st before selling but got risk lor. i'm really at a loss.. don't sell i feel bad, sell i feel insecure.. say if i agree to sell, do you all think i should ask for that additional 5%?? should i...

hi powder, like what you said earlier, he's trying desperatly to get out of debts. i empathize him, in fact, i thought of helping him, maybe i should just sell the house but if i do that he will never learn. sometimes i feel like i'm being a bad wife, leaving my husband in lurch. but i want...

i don't deny that we argue over money issues sometimes. he says after selling the house, settle the debts, he will treat me better. he don't understand why i always scare this, scare that. i dunno how to make him see my point. everytime we talk about it, it lead to arguement.

autumn, you totally point out my concerns. i'm very afraid that this debts of his will come back again and all the profits maybe gone within a few years. how i wish he can minus 50% of his egoism and that one bad habit. i hate it when we quarrel - it's hurting & tiring. 伤心åˆä¼¤ç¥ž

i told him if he insists on selling the flat, i should be getting 5% more. afterall, i'm the one paying the most of the household bills all these years though earning lesser than him. he's not happy. he thinks i'm being calculative and husband & wife shouldn't be in that way. i do agree...

i see current place as our home; a place where we built from scratch - from nothing to something. somehow we don't share the same view. he thinks now it's good time to sell to cash in profits. he can quit his job, settle his debts and the rest of the money can keep the money for future use...

help! my husband wants to sell our flat but i don't want. he's now angry and cold to me. i feel terrible but if i give in, i know i will pick on him on & off. that won't make both of us happy. i feel our relationship start to turn sour becos of this matter.

hi hotsnow, at least your bf will change to auto mode. Mine just conveniently forget my bday despite all the open hints

You mean Xena, Vio? I seen that show before, used to be one of my fav TV dramas.

they are your children, sean. dun see any wrong to provide them a comfortable life with luxuries.

It bothers me, just that so far not to the extend of really go to the lawyer to apply for divorce. Maybe I hoping one day he will wake up realizing it's wrong of him to be calculative, then all's well ends well LOL. No fight no tears no pain no anger. See, if I can talk to him on this issue...

SM, if I charge him for sex?? Doesn't that make me a wh***?? -.-''' Thomas, I also admire my patience. Maybe love is blind?? Pink, tried your method before. Failed. Cos next day he will do something to make me laugh then everything ok liao. I always been weak in arguments. Vios, thanks...

hai-yo if I were to know he will be like that after married, I also won't married him LOL. But then, if take away the stingy & calculative parts, he's actually not that bad. Just that I dunno long much longer can I take. Whenever I bring up this topic, he always says becos he has...

Right on spot, Milo!! You know if we go eat in restaurant, he won't allow me to pay him in front of the cashier but he will chase for it right after we step out of the restaruant. Just awhile ago, he ask me for tonight dinner money COS he paid my share for past 2 meals. want to know what I...

Vio, if only my husband can think like you, how good will that be! Many times, I try to convince myself don't let these money issues to get in our way but it's just evitable. Imagine, he can wail that he bought grocery for like $30, he expect me to pay half but when i buy, he just diam diam...

Sometimes I can't help feeling bitter about it. My husband used to brag on how much he spent on his ex. - expensive meals, hundreds of dollars on her clothing, cab her to & fro blah blah blah blah. Dun see he spend that much on me. Never mind that, now we're married. I'm paying 70% of...

i really want to learn swimming!! any khakis??!!

hi, anyone interested to form an evening swimming group with me at sengkang? preferably weekdays evening from 7-8pm or 8-9pm lady instructor, min 4 persons, 4 lessons for $60 per person