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"What is so important about the man "accepting the children as his own"? To me, this is not critical. The man can be an "uncle", a friend.. Without the title and burden of the "new daddy" - he may be able to connect better with the children. Taking on the father's role may seem to be "ideal" but...

actually I dont need him to provide for them if he can support them emotionally that is enough, but he think otherwise he set expectations on himself that he got to do his part in this family which causes him to fear on this great committment. Telling me that he can only see life growing old...

he still cant accept us as a family. kids is the issue of stopping him into a marriage right now. He felt that problem lies on him that is why we are still working on it. Thanks for your input

as I wrote if he can accept us as a family that is enough if set any expectation that he got to treat the kids as his own, even for the kid too. They only need to accept him as their mommy partner and he treat them as the kids are his partner children love them as a uncle will do. Are this...

Shanna, that must be hard on your sister, relationship really need time to develop. I din want to expect my bf to accept the kids fully as his own. As long as he can accept us as a family and be the kids uncle that is enough. Sad to say kids are closer to him than their dad.

thanks Shanna, I can only try to stay hopeful. Continue to encourage your sis, the child will have eyes to see the effort your sis had put in

Evon, Giving up the kids will not be a option for me. My bf knew that and wouldnt want that to happen too. I am confident that he will not favouritize his own blood and I am also wanting to be fair to him to give him a child of his own who can look after him if I am the one who leave this world...

I dont think I can leave him for someone who can accept the kids.

Thanks Sm, That is really encouraging. Will try to be positive and patient toward our future.

Thanks for your advices. At first I would love very much to give him a child of his own but realised that is impossible now. I also started to convince myself to just stay in love but still hoping we can build a family together. I just feel that a relationship without a marriage is like not...

I had 2 kids from my previous marriage. Had came to know my partner for nearly 2 years. Along the relationship we came to understand each other better and that make us closer each day. Although we loved each other alot but still he cant be able to accept my kids as his own and start a new family...

I think I will feel the same as Carlene, yes that is not her house she got NO rights to say so. But I felt tat the family member are also been rude to do so. They also got to respect them to give them their privacy. Carlene u really got to get your own house instead of moving in, if that is...