ivy>no probs. Ayden is 3 1/2 months now. Its tiring taking care of him but he makes us really happy. The grandparents also smile and laugh more now cos of him. Both my parents and inlaws also meet up more often now when they come to see him.
we have a joint account that both of us contribute to equally every month. either to sign as its more convenient. currently using it for joint purchases/holidays. But we continue keeping our own individual bank accounts and use that for our own shopping and other expenses.