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    Very confused... Duno wat shd i do.....

    Hi confused, I will encourage you and your husband to go for marriage counselling...to talk things out and resolve your conflicts and problems with each other. Note that this does not mean that you are going to commit, I feel that it will be better to explore your options with an expert...
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    Emotional struggle

    all the best!
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    How to salvage a marriage

    Hi feelingpain, You want love and care from him. What does he want from you? Does he just want to bail out? Or does he need time and space to cool down? If he just want to call it quits and does not want to try and salvage the marriage, you can't. It takes 2 to work.
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    How to salvage a marriage

    hi jz, thanks for your answer...it's roughly there lah, but I must truthfully say that I did not strongly suggest anything because there will be a lot of repercussions, and actually i do not really know what feelingpain wants in her life. You've heard of the phrase "Be careful what you wish...
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    How to salvage a marriage

    scope, nope, hweebs was not in nie before. You realize i suggested a possible behaviour and action, but i did not interpret it nor describe why?
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    How to salvage a marriage

    Hi feelingpain, Don't know if what I suggest will work or is helpful. Don't know if your husband will even end it with you because of that, you think about it and evaluate it on your own. I suggest you getting to know the female teacher, let her know you are pregnant, and getting her to...
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    Going out

    watching, You are off the hook once you stop replying and reading this thread. It's up to you, you know
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    Need serious advise

    fallen, u have any skills not? i know some people who does pedicure/manicure for people in their home...u want to explore something like that?
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    Need serious advise

    civil servant cannot bankrupt i think. And cannot moonlight with evidence. I.e. no CPF and records...else govt will take commission
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    Sexual harassment at work is it common?

    it's okay la but i hope you are also not feeling too frustrated with your position right now. It's her life and her decision lor, you just listen, and give her suggestions when she need bah. all the best!
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    Would you accept your husband being a "buddy" to a female colleague?

    Glamour, My sense of things is that your husband is very quick in sms-ing his colleague because as a doctor, he feels that her life is in danger, and is trying to keep her alive short term (suicide) and long term (eating disorder). Of course it may be possible that the colleagues is...
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    Sexual harassment at work is it common?

    Jo, Yah, I understand. It's up to your friend now lor...
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    Sexual harassment at work is it common?

    Jo, oic...wah, so removed. End of the day, it's your friend's decision lor...she is the one harassed and traumatized, if she don't want to do anything, we can shake head, but also will not lose a piece of meat. She decides for her life.
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    Need serious advise

    tuition
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    Sexual harassment at work is it common?

    discussions aside, jo, have you sounded your superior yet?
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    So messed up

    but u will also have a bright and good future based on your 'now' jiayou la!
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    Sexual harassment at work is it common?

    I think I understand what Jo means. Do you guys think that females will treat anything small such as a dirty joke as sexual harassment? Note that sexual harassment is intimidation, bullying or coercion of a sexual nature, or the unwelcome or inappropriate promise of rewards in exchange for...
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    So messed up

    reddy, Do what you want, and live by your choices. Who are you, if not a product and culmulation of what you have chosen in life? Scope can say everything in the world, ultimately, you are the master of your life and destiny. all the best!
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    Sexual harassment at work is it common?

    Jo, There are some problems getting this resolved internally, or you fear the repercussions? Or is it that that guy did not stop after being warned and so? I had a female friend who kena this before...that guy was quite an old bird, so after my fren brought this up to her department and etc...

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