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    Wife's EA...what should i do?

    Try and remain positive. Seek counselling if required or talk to family members to mediate.
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    Getting Final Divorce Judgement

    Yes. However, that's your lawyer's job. After 3 months from the date of making Interim Judgment, provided that the ancillary matters have been heard which, I presume in your case already done and the orders made, the Plaintiff (you) can proceed to file the necessary papers to extract the Final...
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    Annulment

    meimei1601, sometimes, it is not the reason that is written on paper that matters but getting to the end goal, divorce or in your case, annulment. So don't look too much into the reasons etc but more importantly, look forward and move on. Time to close the chapter where it matters.
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    Getting Final Divorce Judgement

    So long as you have submitted the application for divorce and have received the interim judgement, you do not have to submit anymore application. Once Court issues the interim judgement, 3 months later you will get your final judgement without the need to submit another application.
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    Getting Final Divorce Judgement

    3 months after Interim Judgement. This 3 months is stipulated for cooling period in an event there are amendments or revocation of the divorce proceedings. Should there be no changes, you'll received the final judgement.
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    Disappointment in an unfaithful soon to be ex husband

    People change, for better or worse. And one of the fundamentals of relationship/marriage take two hands to clap will never be absent. At some stage, both have to do some reflections which, I'll give you a question at the end of this message for you to think about. I can only imagine your pain...
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    The Green Hat

    I went through (not exactly the same) almost similar incident. Just that I didn't find receipt but more like catching my ex red handed at the hotel. To answer your questions: 1. Will his wife still be able to get half of the flat? Will my uncle be entitled to the whole flat if she is caught...
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    Perspective Required..

    Thanks meimei101 for the insights and kind words. I've made up my mind to let go and past few days or perhaps weeks were not easy, but only gets better. The constant struggle over messages has inevitably stopped. At that juncture, just need to start thinking for myself and move forward, whether...
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    Perspective Required..

    Thanks to everyone here on sharing your thoughts and comments. Moving on or letting go has been something preached to me by many, ironically including my logical self. That will be easy if one is heartless. However, emotions can be overwhelming and the internal conflicts can be a tad...
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    Perspective Required..

    Well.. it has been a very drama week. Last Saturday, I made up my mind to go for the trip knowing it will be an obligation, and I know I asked for it. Some ways I'm glad I was there, but in many I wasn't. Just say I know I deserve the beating knowingly walking into the bottomless pit. It was a...
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    Perspective Required..

    Thanks Lemonzil, I'll be fine and thanks for kind words. There comes a point in time, where two people come together and make each other happy just by sharing the same thoughts, their time, lives and supporting each other with their individualistic ways. Relationship can go through a lot of...
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    Perspective Required..

    Looking at this in a hollistic perspective, I doubt no one here can deny or argue the very fact that there is a right way or a wrong way. Isn't ironic, either party is going to get hurt, either party is going to be selfish one way or another, either party is going to look back and reminisce the...
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    Perspective Required..

    Again thanks for sharing your thoughts and comments. Last Friday was rather epic as the conversation via messages ended with her telling me I'm emotionally blackmailing her and stuff. Well, it all started because we (both of us and her group of friends) booked a trip this coming weekend. She...
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    Perspective Required..

    Thanks all for sharing your thoughts and suggestions. I guess I know all, just the moving part. I guess procrastination on moving on is as bad as not moving at all. Perhaps it is habitual, hopes, expectations and sudden lost causes the first step forward difficult. Well, at some point I have to...
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    Perspective Required..

    Lemonzil, yes. Everything is like a roller coaster particularly for me. I guess, it's just part and parcel of it. We did had a chat yesterday. She kind of said I don't get it but eventually she realized I do. Well, it's a matter of her feeling frustrated and agitated because she knows she hurts...
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    Perspective Required..

    I agree with each and everyone of you here. Like I said I know the answer, just can't lift myself and make the first step to move on. Anyway, just this afternoon we had a chat on the phone. Noting she still can't get over ex, there isn't much to talk about except platonic conversations etc. Did...
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    Perspective Required..

    Just need some perspective although I kind of know what is the outcome or comments I’ll get. So here goes.. Met someone about 10 months ago. At that time she was attached but kind of unhappy with her then relationship as she is not getting the attention she needs. During that time, she was...
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    How to make a closure to a endless pain

    Good that you feel that way. I want to share this message to you and everyone that faces relationship or marriage problems now.. and felt this is a message that might also be in line with one of my personal beliefs, principles and philosophies that through, because of, or in spite of your...
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    How to make a closure to a endless pain

    TS, this isn't a failure but one milestone you got to go through. What I see is that the two of you or at least one is not willing to iron out the problem or even, sit down and talk about it. Most importantly, doing this in individual perspective as well as in each other's. There isn't someone...
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    How to Annul a Marriage in sg

    meimei1601, a door close is another that will open some where. What said is said and what done is done. Always believe in finding out earlier than later. The pain, frustration and hurt is definite, but not as bad as many years down with kids and all then decide, it'll hurt even more. Look...

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