How did you know he or she was the one?

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newproject

Active Member

• Feb 21, 2017

• #1

For those happily married or happily attached to get married what was the thing she or he did that made you think "God im have to marry this person"

For those who thought they found the one and were wrong feel free to share too.

 

white_open_water

New Member

• Feb 22, 2017

• #2

newproject said:

For those happily married or happily attached to get married what was the thing she or he did that made you think "God im have to marry this person"

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She had me blinded....

newproject said:

For those who thought they found the one and were wrong feel free to share too.

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Long answer short, you will never know, not for sure and not for a lifetime anyway. Many marriages persevered even after both parties had doubts. Some broke down when only one side gave up.

May I ask what is the main objective of your questions? To determine if you have found the right person?

PS: My apology for my lame reply

 

littlepinkpointes

Active Member

• Feb 23, 2017

• #3

I think we will never know if the person is THE ONE.

Relationship and marriage is a process of knowing someone. The difference is how much more intimidate (mentally and emotionally).
It's a journey of continuing to love, accept, compromise, tolerate, forgive and work together to manage a relationship.

I can't answer how we will know if the other person is the one. But I do know that in order for me to commit to someone, he has to be someone I can trust, rely, depend on. The rest is hardwork.....

 

buddhabar

Active Member

• Feb 24, 2017

• #4

To be blatantly honest, marriage is a trial and error with calculated risk. Some succeed at the first attempt, some take twice and some never find success.

 

miloice

Well-Known Member

• Feb 28, 2017

• #5

When I can give without reserve and yet receive without demanding. There is no one answer, we are all different. If we are to speak generally, The right partner brings out the best of us regardless how difficult or smooth the life journey is. The couple is truly happy together regardless their adversities.

Where our spouses make us naturally become a better person.

 

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Staypositive

Active Member

• Feb 28, 2017

• #6

Seriously it's a silly qn to ask.anyway there is no such thing as the one.ppl change.the only certainty is change and you must learn how to handle it.

 

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newproject

Active Member

• Feb 28, 2017

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Staypositive said:

Seriously it's a silly qn to ask.anyway there is no such thing as the one.ppl change.the only certainty is change and you must learn how to handle it.

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Says the guy with no experience lol

 

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Staypositive

Active Member

• Feb 28, 2017

• #8

newproject said:

Says the guy with no experience lol

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If you are experienced do u need to ask such question????dun try act smart lah.

 

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4sgbrides

New Member

• May 13, 2017

• #9

When he makes you smile all the time for no reason

 

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JaneLi

Member

• May 30, 2017

• #10

When he/she can do everything that she doesn't do in front of others & do it in front of you only... eg giving u the big bad breath when you both just wake up