Hi all. I had my divorce 6years ago.
Terms was supervised visit for me. And it's set on 2 days at a strict timing. My ex husband wasn't flexible on this and I had to stick to what was black on white in the terms for Divorce. Also on the terms, it is said that we have to open a shared account from 2015 onwards and I have to contribute a sum monthly, and when my son turns 16, all the money will go to my son (Only I am contributing, but it is under his & my name).
I have been dragging this opening of shared account as I don't feel safe or make sense that I am only the one putting in money but it is under both mine and his name. Who knows when my son turns 16, he might take the money from my son instead. As in the past when we are still married. He borrowed alot of money from me. And when I left his home and wanted a divorce, he agreed to paid me the money he owed me but he just wanted my son. I agreed as I have no job nor home back than and have no ways to support me son.
I need some advise as to what happen as if he opens the case, am I able to fight back? Back than I was young, and as all the disagreements was happening back than, I didn't have much money to fight on anymore and just agreed to whatever terms he came with.
Terms was supervised visit for me. And it's set on 2 days at a strict timing. My ex husband wasn't flexible on this and I had to stick to what was black on white in the terms for Divorce. Also on the terms, it is said that we have to open a shared account from 2015 onwards and I have to contribute a sum monthly, and when my son turns 16, all the money will go to my son (Only I am contributing, but it is under his & my name).
I have been dragging this opening of shared account as I don't feel safe or make sense that I am only the one putting in money but it is under both mine and his name. Who knows when my son turns 16, he might take the money from my son instead. As in the past when we are still married. He borrowed alot of money from me. And when I left his home and wanted a divorce, he agreed to paid me the money he owed me but he just wanted my son. I agreed as I have no job nor home back than and have no ways to support me son.
I need some advise as to what happen as if he opens the case, am I able to fight back? Back than I was young, and as all the disagreements was happening back than, I didn't have much money to fight on anymore and just agreed to whatever terms he came with.