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sent you a pm...

claudia, i think i understand a bit, though each have their own stories. i am going through this too.. if u want to find someone to talk to or we can share..hahah wat is there to share... do turn on your pm... and i can send u my email. take care

May i ask if we can change lawyer to do ancillary as my round 1 cost quite a hefty sum already. Is there a lawyer that does the job or can do the job ( maybe badly phrase ) with like a package price? Or can we make the defendant pay?

for those who have been to court because they could not come to an agreement for divorce assets and stuff, can you share? defendant did an adultery but he does not want to settle me and kid properly and really drove me to the corner with what he offer, things that did not happen he claim it...

siobhan ~ you sounded like me. now even with the dad he is having hee hee ha ha and i am the strict one. Kiddo is pretty happy go lucky too but sometimes when i tell him for not doing this and that, he just keep quiet. you mean can be divorced but yet to settle anciliary portion? all i...

siobhan~ how old is your child? i have always encourage my child to be close but recent incident lead me to think maybe once we are out, he will be out though he say he love the child a lot. Because the gf have her own kid which he can absorb in. But one never knows.

thank you for all your input. protecting our children is the most basic things we can do for them at this age i agree. okay on the side, one lady told me that many years ago when she D and the children was a bit older and she was so nice to them keeping all the secrets of what the father...

Siobhan ~ you are right...everything needs planning..... i sent u a pm....

thank you Siobhan... the one thing i seldom do, was keeping a record of what i bought for son but that i am also very thrifty.... good for him but bad for me now.. son use to have hand me down clothing from friends kid as i don't mind. with what i have on hand like his adultery, when we...

thanks again. i will check with lawyer but if Siobhan reads this maybe she can pm me the lawyer name. SM ~ impact, since the other woman have a child almost same age, i wonder in my head won't he take care more of that child after the D and not of his own already? But then that is fact right...

thank you Serene and Siobhan. Today i woke up and my heart is heavy as i want to file now. Ladies and guys, does anyone know what is the impact of filing under adultery and or under unreasonable behavior. Both i have just dunno what i should use. till now i try and try but after what i secretly...

i think it have come to the point where we cannot talk about anything or even amicably anymore and worst i found out that he is trying to prevent me from getting the condo share. Its really sad.. i will leave to lawyer to handle it now, i am just asking for fair share ( is it still possible at...

Siobhan ~ he just say rent a place. Never did he once discuss the child. I told him he will follow me so that is why i will talk to lawyer again. We have all along stay with the inlaw. I would like to move out but if i stay with inlaw and he move out, they might not be happy. They love their son...

good to hear Siobhan that you are amicable. i think the man is fighting for even a place for us to stay as we stay with inlaw all the time. i pray that we end it amicably too. i am not so small hearted but he is a bit as he will have another 2 mouth to feed.

thank you cuclainne, i would rather have a good relationship after the divorce. i just worry that as time goes by, the man will think of son less as he use to love the son so much ( now i can see he can pretend to go for work trip but actually here and spend time with the gf and child ) buy...