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    How to deal with demanding future mother in law?

    I took my time to reply to you because I decided to respond to your rather than react which is undeniably what you did. I would like to believe that you are an adult bride to be ( if not why are you even in this forum…? Perhaps, you’re looking for some help also somewhere? If you see something...
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    Tea Ceremony but no plans for gate crash

    following up on this thread with regards on the gate crash. My partner and I are not interested to have gate crash as well ( figured it does not make $$ sense to risk partner having tummyache/ sweaty body/ look like a clown on the big day where we paid a significantly sum of $ on) " If the...
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    How to deal with demanding future mother in law?

    Can consider to have a heart to heart chitchat with your boyboy and pull him down to Earth type of question that cannot siam / dun reply / see later how. Have him to understand that he is the man that is going to be your husband, the father of your future child, his rol is no longer just a...
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    Is this an acceptable excuse not to RSVP?

    omg! i get you ! 100% ( its never about the $ that matters! See the face of love ones that attend we happy already!) its fine to give a small angpao / symbolic gift like honey esp if you do not have the $ means to give because attending a wedding supposed to be witnessing a joyful union, not...
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    Chatters

    haha come i join in. seems like all migrated elsewhere already.
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    Need help with parent expectation

    " but my parents and his parents wanted to invite everybody" - have a heart to heart talk with them, can always use money concern to start the topic *wink* no need paiseh on this. If they are sponsoring for the event (dinner?) than perhaps you can consider to go " to give them face" As for...

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