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    Devastated....Failed Marriage

    Hi sweet, Thanks, I'm doing fine now.. Definitely feel the pain of flashbacks, and every now and then indulge in a little self-pity, but I always remind myself what I have now is much better than what I had before - internal strength..and probably the pride of surviving through it all.. Why...
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    Devastated....Failed Marriage

    Hi torn guy, Chanced upon your thread after two years of my own journey to avoid coming back back to sgbrides forum because my own story is still here (I think).. I went through the same thing you described..except when it happened to me two years ago, iPhones weren't that developed yet...
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    Advice?! An affair...

    Don't search for reasons to stay and lengthen this relationship any longer... men who cheat will of course say things and do things that make you sympathise with them.. they want your attention and they want to keep your attention. simple as that. when it boils down to a showdown with you...
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    Infidelity in a husband

    caught up in anger and disillusion but directed at the wrong objective... when one is hurt, one of the first responses would be to hurt the person who inflicted this hurt.. and push the blame to a convenient object.
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    Infidelity in a husband

    Just a little thought, why r u focusing your anger on the woman instead of seeing what went wrong with your hubby. What will pressing charges against her accomplish? What is your ultimate objective?
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    Infidelity in a husband

    Can be anything.. And there's no guarantee. A person doesn't grow up knowing he will end up committing crimes. What makes u so sure you yourself wouldn't fall? I know I can't be so certain. People hit certain phases in life, and have different needs and wants. And this is something that you may...
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    Advice?! An affair...

    TOW told me my hubby told her he didn't love me anymore, said he's still staying married to me because of the kids. Said he told her he can't even bear to touch me any longer. My hubby told me he had to say such stuff to her coz she's crazy and he had to say those things to keep her happy. He...
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    Infidelity in a husband

    Probably don't have to be that insistent.. Being insistent to have the house.. Etc will eventually prolong all the suffering for both the mother and the children. Settle amicably... Get help from your family..If eventually u end up in divorce, request what u need for survival and...
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    Infidelity in a husband

    Limat, Think you're doing the right thing... Live your life the way u want... If by the time your hubby realises he wants to salvage but u have already moved on, then it's too bad for him .. But at least u have given him a fair chance
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    Infidelity in a husband

    eggtart, I don't think anyone of us here can advise u on it because we do not know u, do not know your other half.. u just need to ask yourself r u able to handle it if u move on to marriage, and he turns out to be the same? It's a gamble, don't place the bet if u know u cannot afford to lose...
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    Infidelity in a husband

    Well I'm one typical example of husband carrying on an affair behind my back thru the duration while I was pregnant with our second child. Overseas trip? He took her to JB when he was supposed to be in camp for reservist, another to hong kong while I was in confinement. Until now its been...
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    My husband went to a bar for bachelor night

    My professionalism got affected not only due to long term Mc due to instability in pregnancy,depression and insomnia-plus most nights I cried the whole night away, how to go to work next day? but after the affair got exposed and he left her, she called my school (i was a teacher btw) to...
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    My husband went to a bar for bachelor night

    I'm just a person who believed too much, and thus fell greatly. I'm not able to love freely now. For every ounce of love i feel, there's a sudden reminder that pops up for me to draw back. Its like a warning light. I feel as if part of myself is locked up. May be a little extreme, but that's the...
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    My husband went to a bar for bachelor night

    Milo, I know probably tests exist in any form, in any situation. I guess the half empty/half full glass really depends alot on which context ppl see it in. N also depends alot on our emotions at the point of it. Powder, How true.. I thought I was a good wife to him and he would never do...
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    My husband went to a bar for bachelor night

    Hi ume chan, There is a difference between being cautious and suspicious. I had been suspicious, not cautious, which was my mistake. When things started to become fishy, I should have planned what to say to him, and planned my route out should things turn out to be bad.. But I didn't, probably...

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