Recent content by sadman2009

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    A sad daddy

    TS, be prepared that she might have someone outside the marriage that is giving attentions and things that she wants. The grass is always greener on the other side. So, I think you just have to be balanced. Give whatever you can give at the same time not losing yourself. Do things that will...
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    Intimacy

    Hi! I read your thread and all those who replied and understand where they are coming from. Now, I would like to contribute what I think as a man, may not represent all men. Yes, we all know that happy sex needs to be enjoyed by both parties and with mutual consent. And it is especially...
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    Forgive or not forgive?

    Try getting him to agree to annulment. You can gather all the proofs of his infidelity.. in Singapore with proof of his infidelity... woman can ask for a lot... when he knows these he will agree to annulment.. which is also good for you...
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    Deciding if I should proceed with a divorce

    Have a heart to heart talk with her... may be with a councilor after that if she is agreeable... may be she needs to change or may be you have changed... either way... love for each other is very important... I don't know, if I have loved the woman whom at the start doesn't do housework, I will...
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    [question] would you accept...

    Newproject, are you doing a survey? From company? Schools? University? Sorry, if you personally have a problem and want to have an advice, you are assured that you will get lots of comments and support here. As this section is Matters of the Heart. But you are just here to get some numbers or...
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    Urgent help needed on work permit holder giving birth in singapore

    Why can't you get ROM in Singapore? You can definitely register for marriage. After ROM, she can give birth in Sg and will be a Singaporean. Then, can buy a house or rent a hdb from government. A one room flat rental from HDB is very cheap. I think only about $50 a month. Especially when you are...
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    Single divorced mothers....

    You will find someone good one day. Even if you don't, I believe you still can be happy every day. : ) Just like me, I too hope to find the right one for me. But, if not, I would rather be by myself and be happy than to be in a relationship and have emotional pain.
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    Single divorced mothers....

    Hi small star, don't be disheartened. There will be people who will accept you and love you and your children. You just need to meet the right person. My two male friends for example, married their wives who were divorcee and has a child. One married his wife who has a son aged 15 years. He...
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    Are u okay if ur bf...

    Personally, I don't see if there is any wrong with that. It's not that he dated them or slept with them. Taking photos with people you meet when you are on holiday is just a thing that some do.
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    Affairs of heart :(

    Go ahead and get divorced. May be your husband also has a lover outside. Since he didn't want to have sex with you. Definitely he is having it elsewhere... Same with younger girls.. 10 years younger... I think there is totally no issue here. You like a younger guy so much... And your husband...
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    so troubled! any advise is greatly appreciated

    Break off now... Don't wait... Because what I can see is trouble coming into your relationship... Sooner or later... You may literally kill him one day because of these kind of matters...
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    :(

    Miloice is right. In a relationship there is no fair or not fair. If both really love each other so much and really want to spend the rest of their lives together, there shall be no reservations. I would be very happy to have the one that I love deeply to go with me. May be he is afraid that...
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    Should I start the filing?

    Go for annulment ... It's better for you. And don't try to beg her to stay ... When love is not there no point hanging on to it... Go for annulment and start a new life and later you will find out that life is wonderful out there and it's waiting for you... Using SingaporeBrides app
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    Easy Way to Lose Weight

    Basically, it means less sugar and no milk for your coffee if you want to loss weight. Using SingaporeBrides app
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    My conflict with Mother In Law

    Hi Catnap, Be brave. It will be over eventually. Just hang on to everything is completed. Then you will have your own life and pursue your own happiness. Our own lives are too short and too precious to be wasted and ruined by others. Pursue what that will make you happy. In the mean time, try...

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