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    Sell or don't sell

    yes i sit his car but mostly on weekends. he don't send me to work or fetch me from work. most of the time i need to cab home. say if i quantify the expenses based on our income and claim from him, it's about there lor. like you mentioned earlier, right now he may not want to talk about...
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    Sell or don't sell

    i ask for that 5% mainly is to make him feel the pinch and i don't deny also as a show of my dismay for he always looking for an easy way out. i mean..come on, i work day & night to help him finance his car & our house but he actually want to claim groceries from me?? if he had not...
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    Sell or don't sell

    he said if i really worried about staying permanently at his mom's place, we can buy a flat 1st before selling but got risk lor. i'm really at a loss.. don't sell i feel bad, sell i feel insecure.. say if i agree to sell, do you all think i should ask for that additional 5%?? should i...
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    Sell or don't sell

    hi powder, like what you said earlier, he's trying desperatly to get out of debts. i empathize him, in fact, i thought of helping him, maybe i should just sell the house but if i do that he will never learn. sometimes i feel like i'm being a bad wife, leaving my husband in lurch. but i want...
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    Sell or don't sell

    i don't deny that we argue over money issues sometimes. he says after selling the house, settle the debts, he will treat me better. he don't understand why i always scare this, scare that. i dunno how to make him see my point. everytime we talk about it, it lead to arguement.
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    Sell or don't sell

    autumn, you totally point out my concerns. i'm very afraid that this debts of his will come back again and all the profits maybe gone within a few years. how i wish he can minus 50% of his egoism and that one bad habit. i hate it when we quarrel - it's hurting & tiring. 伤心åˆä¼¤ç¥ž
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    Sell or don't sell

    i told him if he insists on selling the flat, i should be getting 5% more. afterall, i'm the one paying the most of the household bills all these years though earning lesser than him. he's not happy. he thinks i'm being calculative and husband & wife shouldn't be in that way. i do agree...
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    Sell or don't sell

    i see current place as our home; a place where we built from scratch - from nothing to something. somehow we don't share the same view. he thinks now it's good time to sell to cash in profits. he can quit his job, settle his debts and the rest of the money can keep the money for future use...
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    Sell or don't sell

    help! my husband wants to sell our flat but i don't want. he's now angry and cold to me. i feel terrible but if i give in, i know i will pick on him on & off. that won't make both of us happy. i feel our relationship start to turn sour becos of this matter.
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    Is it normal to have man who didnt celebrate GF's Birthday?

    hi hotsnow, at least your bf will change to auto mode. Mine just conveniently forget my bday despite all the open hints
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    Financial matters between husband & wife

    You mean Xena, Vio? I seen that show before, used to be one of my fav TV dramas.
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    Maintenance Issues for Wife & Children?????

    they are your children, sean. dun see any wrong to provide them a comfortable life with luxuries.
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    Financial matters between husband & wife

    It bothers me, just that so far not to the extend of really go to the lawyer to apply for divorce. Maybe I hoping one day he will wake up realizing it's wrong of him to be calculative, then all's well ends well LOL. No fight no tears no pain no anger. See, if I can talk to him on this issue...
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    Financial matters between husband & wife

    SM, if I charge him for sex?? Doesn't that make me a wh***?? -.-''' Thomas, I also admire my patience. Maybe love is blind?? Pink, tried your method before. Failed. Cos next day he will do something to make me laugh then everything ok liao. I always been weak in arguments. Vios, thanks...
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    Financial matters between husband & wife

    hai-yo if I were to know he will be like that after married, I also won't married him LOL. But then, if take away the stingy & calculative parts, he's actually not that bad. Just that I dunno long much longer can I take. Whenever I bring up this topic, he always says becos he has...

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