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"in the first place, wedding banquets are never about money making opportunity?" Exactly and I don't understand why is she being so insistent when she won't be the one paying for the banquet? :rolleyes: To make matters worse, I heard from my FH that she insisted on wedding banquet for her 2nd...

Honestly, I want a banquet and my FH is totally neutral about it but I do not want to go against his mother's wishes. So finally, we decided not to have a banquet because of his mother and that's why my parents are not happy about this.

It should be but I am afraid his mother will ask him to contribute some of the Pin Jin because it is so much more than what she received when she married off her daughters. That's why I want to know if my parents' request is reasonable to you guys. To me, I feel it is reasonable but that is just...

Yes, and although he understands my parents' decision, he also knows I agree to not throw the dinner because I don't want my MIL to be unhappy. That is why he mentioned if his mother really does ask him for the Pin Jin, he will give it to her. However, I do not want him to do that as I know he...

My future MIL does not want my FH to throw wedding lunch or dinner (摆酒席). This is because her previous daughers (FH's sisters) did wedding lunches and "lost money", in other terms were not able to recoup the cost for throwing the lunches. My FH is very neutral about it and I know if I insist...