Recent content by pinkcherryapple

Hey guys, I'm looking back at what I posted about 1.5 yrs ago, and I'm glad we didn't do anything rash And I really appreciate the comments that fellow forumers have left. Anyway, just a little update, I did not join the workforce after graduation last year (I'm now in grad school, but...

hahaha.. yup, have witnessed such cases... I'm just wondering if ppl from this generation is a lot different from our parents' generation, where the males are usually the sole breadwinner.

Hi all! I read Closet Outpour's post about her problem with her husband being kind of "stingy" and wanting to split cost for stuff.. And this got me wondering about the norm for most couples in Singapore. Do the hubby usually give the wife allowance and pay for most of the stuff? Or do the...

hmm... i guess u guys might have misinterpreted my "boring" meaning. I'm bored with my "alone time", when i'm doing my school work and can't go out to meet him, and since we're not staying together, i can't get to see him as frequently as i like. so i'm bored with.... myself?! omg.. haha.. no...

haha thanks for your nice analogies Really pull me back to the reality :P 1 step at a time... boring at times, but what to do?

hahaha... now that U talk about life as a marathon, I kind of feel that I'm the sort who wants to reach the destination asap, not bcoz I wanna be number 1, but bcoz I just wanna stop running and enjoy life :P and I'm very likely the sort who run till i collapse and die -_- then end of story :X...

Haha.. It feels like running a marathon Maybe by the time I reach the goal, I'll be too tired to do anything else. Past the prime age, and don't want to settle down or have kids anymore :P I have aunts & uncles (and a few cousins) who are well over their 30s and refuse to get married...

Haiz... it's like money is not everything, but without money, u can't do anything i dunno how long i have to take to save the 50K.. haha... and if i manage to have that kind of saving, I think I might decide not to hold those kind of grand banquet le... Just use it for house &amp...

Haha... yah, rushing is indeed rather stressful. But for me, even if I wanted to rush, I won't get past the "gatekeepers", i.e. my parents.. haha.. I'll still get halted -_- But I do hope that we can at least get engaged 1st :P Always so excited about these.. heehee

To doLL & cuclainne: Yup yup, that's why I'm saying that even if we do get married within these couple of yrs, we won't have kids till we know we have stable income - i.e. confident enough that we can financially support out kids. We have thought about the consequences.. haha.. I'm not...

Well I think I'm definitely not going to be the sole breadwinner lah.. I wish I were a guy, then I won't mind.. haha.. like my dad.. Anyway, I do get your point about the after having kids & deciding to put less focus on career. I've also thought about it before. But I'm thinking that I...

wow... i'm quite surprised that ppl are actually replying to a thread that was started more than half a year ago... and i see a lot of replies discouraging marriage while "too young"... and of coz money is the main reason, followed by "not having seen the world enough yet". well yea, i do...

Ling (Zenteno): Actually I'm not quite sure if my mum would mind me having the customary a couple of yrs later... haven't got the chance to find out yet.. haha.. and yea, i know ppl do change as they proceed to do different things in life, but maybe bcoz I have many cousins who dated their bfs...

hmmm weird... nvm send to this other 1 instead.. [email protected] this 1 i know it's working paiseh ah... hee~

Hmm.. weird.. I can't PM u as well... did u set your settings to not accept PMs? why not u email me your msn address to [email protected] Thanks :P