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    Dowry matter

    JulianS, don't you find it ridiculous to break this relationship just because of dowry? I'm not a thai, so I may not understand the "standard" tradition of Thai wedding/dowry. But I would like to understand why do both of you need your parents to pay for the wedding/dowry? It's your wedding...
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    Need help, only married for 3 months.....

    What's exactly the major problem that u think u cannot live and love each other anymore?
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    Stress

    I would suggest u don't resign first. If u resign, u will not be entitled to the maternity benefits in your current company. That's 16 weeks of paid maternity leave (Provided u are having a Singapore citizen child). Picture this - u resigned, losing all maternity benefits. U have to carry the...
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    Should i Divorce pls read and give me advice

    Hey Scope Guy, Stop calling people names like Morons, dimwitted. It speaks alot about your poor character and upbringing.
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    Bad Sex...Should I leave?

    Scope Guy, What won't work, won't work? Hahaha obviously u are a person who don't try. U gave me an impression that u will easily give up on "the one" when there is any imperfection to your relationship or partner. Like what denise80 said, simply take flight and had never been able to fully...
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    Bad Sex...Should I leave?

    Hi TS, We all want the perfect husband isn't it.. a husband that love us faithfully, no flaws, gives good sex, treats you and your family well etc... but ask yourself, how many of us actually have that? We are humans, we are not perfect. Including ourselves. You are thinking of leaving...
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    In love with A married man ...

    En Xuan, His ex-wife has already given u her husband, what more do u want? Now, u are torturing their kid mentally? Please be kind, the kid has nothing to do with all these saga of yours.
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    Stuck in between

    It is just a date...tell your gf.. A marriage is much more than just a wedding date.
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    Stuck in between

    I was in this situation before, my mother in law wanted to calculate our wedding date too. But out of respect, I gave in to her because I can understand she has good intentions for us. The only thing my husband and I insist was the wedding date has to be on a sat because we don't want to...
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    Short Trip

    Vinnydoo: Hahaha thanks! You can go anytime. Haha just 1 hour searide away. Btw, I always book thru this agency: http://www.asiatravel.com/singapore/batam/harris/promo2.html
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    Short Trip

    I would recommend Batam instead of Bintan! Been to Bintan, one sentence to describe.. expensive and not worth it. Their coke in the resort cost like S$5 each. And that was 4 years ago. Now could cost even more to go there. Nothing much to play there too. Batam, been there alot of times...
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    MIL commented that I will siffer if this continues.....

    Albee always portrays herself as a "rich tai tai" with a "super" loving husband. You can see most of her posts in this forum only surrounds how loving her husband treats her, and how enjoyable her life is. She won't stop one lah..perhaps that the only thing she feels good about herself.
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    Would you accept your husband being a "buddy" to a female colleague?

    Albee, So are you telling all of us that you have the X factor and is that sunshine good hearted girl? Hahaha.. X factor is determined by others, not yourself. You don't have to "control" to spare the misery of others that you deemed do not have that kind of X factor. Ultimately, it's...
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    Do you still use gifts from your EX

    I kept them and I'm still using them. Like necklaces, bags and sweaters etc. I see it them as useful items of no sentimental values anymore. So why waste it?
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    Confused state

    Yes. Try to build a better relationship with her mother. She will be your family afterall. I'm glad you are not confused anymore. A good pat on your shoulder for rejecting the dates with your childhood friend!! This is really an action that marks your determination and fidelity. Always...

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