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    My [30m] girlfriend [28f] always say I'm useless and her mom [50s] agrees

    *Jaw drops* Why in the first place did she agree to marry him if she is pushing him away with more demands? I feel sorry for your friend. He gave in all for her and she just continued going about her own way and rules.
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    Feeling so shitty!

    One piece of advice that I heard from a lawyer is to never seek revenge. If you seek revenge, your hatred/contempt will only drive you crazy and complicate the proceedings. Always try to work around everything with a cool head. Sometimes we need to think clearly in order to move on and take the...
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    Love <3 Story?

    I can see that you are genuine about the relationship and yes, trust plays an important part. It really is hard for us outsiders to understand the situation and only both of you know your true feelings. All I can say is, we always want to trust that everything is good but even sometimes we do...
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    Love <3 Story?

    Eh, I can't really reply on her behalf but if it's in secret I believe there are other factors other than her parents being strict. If a relationship needs to be hidden and you have not met her in person over all these years, it's so suspicious that she could be with someone else. From own...
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    Lost... What is love?

    My focus is more importantly on family as we both shared and agreed that we wanted to build a family together, and yes, he still does treat me well. He just needs to let go of his ego and pride and wanting to always be right sometimes. You might think I'm staying to be a family for my son but...
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    Lost... What is love?

    Hello. I've been on a hiatus and somehow this post seems to attract my attention. Haha. To lostmypurpose, is there any chance that you could shower affection on your wife? (Sorry if I missed previous posts, I just read your first post and came straight to the end). Spend some time with each...
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    My husband had an affair

    May I ask which one is more problematic for you? Your husband's cheating or your sister's knowledge about it? Not too sure what you would like for us to help you with.
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    Is Wife Having An Affair?

    I wasn't even being defensive but just suggesting that you could provide something more constructive. But whatever you take out of anyone's comment, so be it.
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    Platonic relationship

    It really depends on individual. I have a bff and he's a guy. He treats me like a bro and I treat him like my b****. LOL. He seriously can gossip just as much as women. You have to set the boundaries of the friendship. I will always intro my partner to my bff and they can get along which is...
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    Is Wife Having An Affair?

    Do exercise some caution in your reply and don't apply it to your situation that you have gone through. No one asks to fall ill and it does not require you to berate them either. Hope you can provide more constructive comments rather than focusing on whether a person is a local or a failure...
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    Getting my life back

    Maybe try to get into some exercising. I did that and managed to lose quite a lot of weight and subsequently started to go out on dates. I think I exercised like 6 days a week only for 30mins. Other times just try to catch up with friends, go out for coffee, lunch or dinner. On weekends...
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    Divorce or Separation Questions - need advice

    Would just like to share the definition of cheating, as most of us already know what constitutes as 'cheating'. http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Cheating
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    Divorce or Separation Questions - need advice

    I can't tell you if the women's charter can help you in your case as I'm not a legal advisor/lawyer. Hence, I still recommend that the best advice is to get from a lawyer. You may want to read up on some legal advice found at this link - 1)...
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    Divorce or Separation Questions - need advice

    You would have to engage a good lawyer to fight for you. You mentioned that you previously had a bf and your husband found out. It may not look too good for you if the divorce is contested. As you said he begged your previous bf to leave you, so when it comes to divorce it could get much uglier...
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    Divorce or Separation Questions - need advice

    May I ask how do you intend to have the women's charter protect your rights? You might want to seek a lawyer for this then and the fastest way to get a divorce is by admitting adultery or if there is proof that there is unreasonable behaviour. You have mentioned that he pays the bills...

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