Hi jo104, personally I think it is important to choose the right hotel which fits your budget. But sometimes, you pay peanuts, you get monkeys. The last thing you would ever want is for your wedding dinner to turn into another unfortunate incident which is one of its kind...
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I personally attended a wedding dinner recently at Ramada Singapore at Zhongshan Park which is a newly built hotel, therefore the ballroom was beautifully decorated with a cosy ambience.
Unfortunately, it was also the lack of experience from the banquet team that practically ruined the whole...