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    Ulterior Motive

    I think yur friend is half right. But from what I know only the young girls look at cars, some older ones look at properties and bank balance. How old is your friend? If he want to look plain jane then dun drive european car. Cars is like a jewerllery to man. He drives one because he want to...
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    Innocent flirting?

    Understand your position. You are still very rational on your theories till this moment.. In fact every sentence you typed makes sense. However.. women will forever be women. Certain things especially betrayal is possible to forgive but not possible to forget. The issue will haunt you...
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    Household Expense Contribution

    Yeah. I am moving on according to my interests. Albee, I dun think he suffered from anything related to his previous divorce. I find it weird actually. He trust me a lot more before marriage. After marriage, his trust in me like being steered away. This is very obvious ever since I...
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    My conflict with Mother In Law

    Yeah, at the moment there is really nothing to change. I believe my sunny days will be here in time to come. Albee, its really a very healthy thought. I just cannot get it balance. My SIL is in her 30s.... while I am in my 20s....
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    Household Expense Contribution

    ok. "for wife+kids, basically at my death - they will automatically be have a few million in insurance+property... and this excludes the educatiion funds i've already setup. should my wife die with me and my kids be useless, i doubt my mum will have any form of protection should she outlive...
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    My conflict with Mother In Law

    There isnt a need. I dun see the need. I couldnt be bothered with her. She just has the ways to make my HB listen to her. Its ok. But I cannot stand it when she wants my HB to tell me that I should listen to her. Yes I understands that Son cannot change mother, but I can change my HB. Later I...
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    Household Expense Contribution

    He misunderstands that I want to have a share in his $$. It could be a misunderstanding but I feel he thinks that I am eyeing for his $$ when I dun hav such intentions in the 1st place. Everone have views and ways to manage their own financial stats. You have your own. Lets say one day your...
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    Household Expense Contribution

    I guess they are just interested to know how much their spouse had in the bank. For me, I dont have the intention to hold the ownership but I will be curious to know. This is because we have committments on house, cars and children. Easier to do financial calculations in the coming years. We...
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    My conflict with Mother In Law

    Hmm.. good suggestion but I dun think will work. She been thru hardships before and I'm sure she will understand the importance of money more than me. However she seemed to abuse it with this excuse "I been thru many hardships and its time to enjoy". Hard to change her. I guess I just have to...
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    My conflict with Mother In Law

    Well.. my MIL... hai... I really dunno how to describe this lao ren jia. She thinks that she had a a hard life in the past and deserves to enjoy now. Her way of enjoyment is not very normal. She go holidays. Be it Malaysia or China, its a monthly issue. Last month, she was away on every...
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    Worthwhile to buy?

    Oh.. then probably our luck bah, the condos we been to only cater 1 lot for 1 unit. I have to pay for the 2nd car, LL. I just received a letter nia, too many 2nd cars and due to demand, 2nd car owners have to go for ballot next month... What the ****!
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    Worthwhile to buy?

    Another thing. Police, LTA, BCA, URA etc will not interfere any complains made within the condo boundary. =( Unless there is human assaults and murdering case, if not they advise the residents to go to us. =(
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    Worthwhile to buy?

    Depends on luck i guess... I used to work under condo management after graduation. One in town and the other is more to the neighbourhood. I really met very weird people who are simply too free. A full long list which can make anybody laugh! Anyway, as for the cost, besides the...
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    Worthwhile to buy?

    I have no comments on prices. But if were to ask me the advantages and disadvantages living in a condo. I can name a full list. HDB is so much nicer la...
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    Household Expense Contribution

    Oh... my HB wont think it this way. He dun see it as a point. Probably its men's ego. I am cool with it. As long as he gives the allowance on time, I will just take. He doesnt question on my balance as well. So...

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