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    Divorce Lawyer

    J. Taylor (westerner84) :Hi, I couldn't pm you. My case is about the same as yours. May I know how's the search for your lawyer? 'coz I'm going to look for one too..
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    Once married = give up your dreams?

    May I know that if once you are married( especially for women), is it true that you are "supposed" to give up your dreams? If both husband and wife don't have a common goal in life, then is the wife "supposed" to align her goal towards the husband's one?
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    Ending a Marriage

    Hi, everybody (as in relatives and parents) wants me to settle quickly as they keep saying I'm the one who lose out. I really really tried to talk to him but besides being scolded and reprimanded by him and quarrels, he doesn't want to solve the issues at all!!! What can I do?? Maybe they think...
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    Ending a Marriage

    Hi Wynn Koh, I couldn't PM you as your PM is not activated. Would like to chat with you too, pls PM me...thanx... I do understand that I have to have a seperation of 3 years but I do not want to be ended up being sued for 2 years of desertion. I am also not sure whether is there any...
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    Ending a Marriage

    Hi Wynn Koh, I couldn't PM you as your PM is not activated. Would like to chat with you too, pls PM me...thanx... I do understand that I have to have a seperation of 3 years but I do not want to be ended up being sued for 2 years of desertion. I am also not sure whether is there any...
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    Ending a Marriage

    Wynn Koh: Who doesn't want a marriage with happiness? Who doesn't want to "live happily ever after"? I think everybody wants... Initially, of 'coz it's 'coz of love that pple marry each other. But when one goes back on his words,when one doesn't even care abt the vows, when one detest u, when...
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    Ending a Marriage

    Hi pple, I would like to seek advice as to my current situation. I've been married for 2 plus years till in Feb 2010, I've decided to stay at my parents place. I had enough of his verbal/emotional abuse as it has caused the extent of me having stressful headaches after every quarrel and thus...
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    What should I do now?

    I've already said. I know all these problems and TRIED to talk to him but his point is take it or leave it. So are u telling me to accept everything that he ask me to do? U already said BOTH in a marriage which I agree. Is he ACCEPTING me as I AM? NO. He WANTS ME TO CHANGE!CHANGE MY JOB, CHANGE...
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    What should I do now?

    Maybe, I DIDN'T put in enough effort to make the marriage work, that is why I'm holding on. I DO NOT KNOW WHAT ARE THE DUTIES OF A WIFE, WHAT ARE THE DUTIES OF A DAUGHTER-IN-LAW which he is expecting from me. I DIDN'T KNOW THAT LOVE A PERSON MUST SACRIFICE EVERYTHING - MY DREAMS, TIME, STRENGTH...
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    What should I do now?

    breaKingfRee (shirleypoise) : I know nuts abt financial matters. I got the info from the HDB hub. So if one's age is below 35 years old and single? Sleep on the road? "I return to him ONLY when he wants to! Not the other way round!" - Ego? Pride? u win? If a person views you as someone...
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    What should I do now?

    I post in this forum is to seek advice, not to "bitch things". I do not know whether is it the language I use or is it I dunno how to express my situation that ended you all saying I'm escaping. Yes, our marriage got problem and I have tried to solve it. I have gone to the counsellor, he...
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    What should I do now?

    littlewoman (lovingyou) : I've already checked. I CAN NEVER Own a HDB in my life. I have to buy a pte house/CONDO. I'm not giving up on my marriage yet. I just need another place to stay when he throws his tantrums. powder (powder) : He's the typical kind of MCP who's probably expecting what...
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    What should I do now?

    Thanx to doLL (sgbabydoll) for clarifying for me. That's what I mean. Maybe I have difficulty in expressing my situation ba. iris (its_fate) : During the so called half an hour ride, I have to bear his verbal abuse and nagging and demeaning/quarrels. I'm NOT the one who's quarreling that he...
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    What should I do now?

    Green (green_tranquility) : "But firstly, are you sure that your hubby is willing to move in together with you? " I never expect him to move in. I intend to live alone. Just that instead of my mom's place, it's another place. I don't intend to rent a place. I intend to buy. Secondly: By...
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    What should I do now?

    cuclainne (cuclainne) : 'coz he keep saying I'm the problem/I'm the one at fault/ babyabc (babyabc) : I don't expect him to move out since he has already "brainwashed" me that he will NEVER EVER BUY A HOUSE WITH ME, esp with me this kind of character..... I don't think it's a matter of...

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