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    Recommendation for Lawyer please - Divorce

    no, these are friends. my first appt was an hour. it's ok. i am just offering help.
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    Recommendation for Lawyer please - Divorce

    u want, i can recommend. and get first appt free. but i tell u first how hard it is to pin infidelity on a cheating husband, and yes, i know the anger and how u want to drag her to court too. i tried that route before. u can do it only if u have money to blow. because when u want to name her...
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    Tarots cards readings

    u cannot do online. u have to be present in person because it's about tapping on your aura and vibes or whatever in order to be accurate. u email me, i will give u details
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    Tarots cards readings

    i know two veteran professional card readers. as in u are charged a fixed amount for one session. u can ask anything, get a feel of things and forecast. so far, so good. been going to one of them for more than 10 years now. she's been accurate so far
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    Should I trust or not?

    i don't want to make u paranoid. but the smses were the start of things for me. but then again, hey, gather enough proof before u jump on his neck. good luck. stay strong for the kids
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    Advice?! An affair...

    xiaoling, i wish u strength. u don't need to confront him, easier to just walk away, as much as it'd hurt. like opal said, if u confront and he plays his cards right, u'd just melt. and back to square one. i wish u courage, girl. u will find the right one out there. just not a man who is...
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    Advice?! An affair...

    xiao ling, are u the sister of hsian lin, the one who threw herself at my husband and still can't let go of him? your type is just unbelievably mad. trust me, my husband fed that same bullshit u were fed by your man. i've read those messages before. yes, like the rest say, the cheating husbands...
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    Infidelity in a husband

    hey, i know u can't divorce while u are pregnant. but if u are thinking of getting it after u deliver, and u are so darn sure your husband's cheating on u, GET A PI. u get a PI to gather proofs, bam! when u get a divorce, everything is yours. kids will be yours. he'll have to pay. and best...
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    Advice URGENTLY needed regarding divorce

    good luck, jacelyn. if u were born in 77, lol, that makes us the same age. eh, choose your lawyer carefully. run background check. find out their success rate. hdb court order takes about 4-6 weeks to be ready. first u need to fix appointment with lawyer. then u need to prepare your...
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    Advice URGENTLY needed regarding divorce

    if u have a very strong case, don't worry. with a damn good lawyer, if your husband contests and denies everything u say but u manage to prove the truth in your argument, u will win and u can make him pay for the extra time the court had to put it to see through it. anyway, if he's smart, he...
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    Advice URGENTLY needed regarding divorce

    oh yeah, just wanna add. if u win the case, meaning u need a good lawyer to prove to court he sucked as a husband, then he will have to pay u half of the lawyer fee. so, technically, for a good lawyer, u need $1,750
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    Advice URGENTLY needed regarding divorce

    u want a cheap divorce lawyer? u'll get one who drags his arse over 2 years and present sloppy arguments in court. get a good one. i have a couple i can recommend. super on. $3.5k for uncontested. u want to do it fast, clean, and benefit u. marriage is an investment. when the investment...
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    Advise - everynight one bottle of Tiger Beer

    honestly, there is nothing wrong with beer at the end of the day. i drink every day. no, i am not a drunkard. i am a functional career woman. nothing like cooold beer hitting the throat at the end of a day. kick back and unwind. and yes, i smoke too. and i'd feel irritated if after a long day...
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    Infidelity in a husband

    wow, this is truly like a gathering of strong women. i wish i have just as much courage. my husband and i have been living apart since last august, after i couldn't handle his affair with his colleague any longer. but when i finally went to a divorce lawyer, he asked me to drop it. said there's...
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    Can I revoke my cheating husband's PR status?

    hmmm...i want his PR revoked so that he goes back to where he came from. i plucked him out of the village, so to speak. he quit his job, serving notice. i did tell him before no way i gonna consider giving him a second chance if he still works with that skank. it's his colleague. she knew...

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