Recent content by lingtan83

Who?Me?, That's just plain selfish.

Hahaha I noe it's cut and paste but still the advice makes sense....

60secs, I like yr advice. I did do those things when I discovered the affair, it really made me seemed like a fool and it actually added to my suffering. Thanks.

sm, thanks for yr advice.

For guys it's really just pick up and move on and no point assigning blame? Then wouldn't it be very easy for men to marry their affair partners????

U noe wat? Kerin Peh was my ex school mate... Serious, no joke.

Yes, I am emotional creature dependent and naive! I am SAHM and I got no close friends. Ever since dating days with ex hubby, he doesn't allow me to have social world, cannot go out with friends etc. I feel that I have sacrificed a lot of my youth everything in it and now my life is ruined.... I...

Does counselling really help? I cannot put down the feelings about the affair. It's hard really hanging on when a partner probably has already moved on long ago.

Easier said then done. It is very painful sometimes I just throw myself into taking care of the kids just to avoid. The resentment bitterness is there too, I just kp bad mouthing my ex and cursing him. How can two people be so selfish to have affair without a thought for the pregnant wife? Even...

It has been one year since my divorce. Reason for divorce was because ex husband had affair. Very very sad and angry bitterness in my heart. I have two young kids. Of course the pain is better then just discovering the affair. But there are still times where the bitterness and sadness creeps in...