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I am currently working on finding a steady girlfriend with the possibility in marriage. Some early step in finding is realizing soon and I'm planning ahead on how to manage this should it blossom. Ok, here is the predicaments I am in. 1) I was financially destroyed from an internet love scam...

Looking at matters of the heart, many a times, it is not the issue at hand that is difficult to handle (eg: smoking, drinking, gambling) but more of the heart, feelings level. How we bring the message across to our love ones. We cannot treat our spouse insensitively just like probably talking to...

Frankly, sometimes it depends on how you have said to him. Is it in a commanding voice or is it like a heart to heart talk; gently and re-affirming that you love him and you have his interest at heart. It seems "controling" when we use our older generation style as commanand & control...

Nice post, nice suggestion paperboat. Make me lau nua to go there liao... haha

Yup, if you need the keycard to take the lift then I think you have to change the pretending strategy... When you are close to him especially after ROM, you can't really be sneaky about your actions. Well, even if you are sneaky, he can don't bother about it. He might guess & you can carry...

Just bring him there to stroll inside the hotel and pretend you are "choosing" the level of your room to have a look at the ambience and slowly head to your room and most obviously you must have the room key already with you. Surprising someone comes with some pretence on your side too

Hmm.. your husband and his ex don't see that marriage is an important milestone at all. He is in a marraige and she is planning to marry SOMEONE else & they are toying with each other feelings... Goodness Gracious! Good luck to them. Soon your husband will be lonely man! Two women also don't...

Your man has decided to leave the marriage and go on with his ex. Damn! Is there no sense in people these days to think that marriage can happen and break just like that? Where is the committment which was said on that day? We seem like a generation that don't mean what we say. When young...

Check with him about his committment for the future; into marriage & many more years to come. Stop whatever you are doing and do a recollection of your relationship before proceeding further; to bigger committments. Most likely if he is resentful about your current income, he will be no...

For people who has gone through similar situation as me to share it here. Not restricted to guys only because as I said, high sex drive doesn't occur in guys only.

The topic is focused on sex because my thread was so short and all the presumption was built upon the unknown and I'm focusing on the man's sexual needs. I wish to keep her cancer private. Thanks!

Ajumma, thanks for the advice & please don't be presumptuous about my purpose about posting this thread. Anyway, who is so free to joke about and laugh over cancer? I don't think any of the replies were jokes or comics right? Powder posted: "so the bait is out with a fishing line...

The female thinks that man thinks of sex 24/7 but I disagree. The urge to have sex comes & goes. If a man loves his wife very much and also loves her body & even when her hair has ALL dropped from chemo, he will wants to spend intimate time with her (She appreciated that I still find her...

Hi MiLo. Haha..it is a personal question. Should I answer it??? Well, porn and more porn! haha! Not really that way, more like on & off then I look at them. You know when you get to taste the really stuff (being able to have sex), it is rather difficult to not think about it. Before...

Well, it may seem like I'm finding a replacement but I don't think it is gonna be. It will be a replacement if and only if I'm trying to find a new girlfriend that resembles my late wife both emotionally and character wise. Before my wife left the world, she told me to find my own happiness...