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    Support group - Divorce

    hi enen.. hug hugs for u... oops sorry , i tot u have not gone thr customary/church wedding. Your case, maybe annulment may not apply. i understand, when i found out my hb affair, i also wanted a divorce very firmly. But on & off, will think of why he din give it another try . am i...
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    Support group - Divorce

    hi enen.. hug hugs for u... oops sorry , i tot u have not gone thr customary/church wedding. Your case, maybe annulment may not apply. i understand, when i found out my hb affair, i also wanted a divorce very firmly. But on & off, will think of why he din give it another try . am i...
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    Support group - Divorce

    hi enen, sorry to hear abt that. You have tried your best and a marriage takes two hands to clap. Sometimes, letting go is better than holding on to something. I understand the physical and mental stress you r having now. The most crucial thing now is to find someone close to confide and...
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    Support group - Divorce

    hi enen, sorry to hear abt that. You have tried your best and a marriage takes two hands to clap. Sometimes, letting go is better than holding on to something. I understand the physical and mental stress you r having now. The most crucial thing now is to find someone close to confide and...
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    Support group - Divorce

    Sally... emotional roller coaster is the worst ride ever!!!! even more scary than the real roller coaster ride. i noe it is difficult not to hate... but always rememeber this: forgive to make urself happier. it takes time. For me, i find it useful to seek help from counsellors and...
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    Support group - Divorce

    Sally... emotional roller coaster is the worst ride ever!!!! even more scary than the real roller coaster ride. i noe it is difficult not to hate... but always rememeber this: forgive to make urself happier. it takes time. For me, i find it useful to seek help from counsellors and...
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    Support group - Divorce

    hi kaya butter, hug hug... i can fully understand ur feelings becos i have been thr that also. The agony of waiting, and the tot of ur man with the other woman is real hurting. From my own experience, maybe i can offer u my views. Men when they are indecisive or want to escape, they tend...
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    Support group - Divorce

    hi kaya butter, hug hug... i can fully understand ur feelings becos i have been thr that also. The agony of waiting, and the tot of ur man with the other woman is real hurting. From my own experience, maybe i can offer u my views. Men when they are indecisive or want to escape, they tend...
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    Support group - Divorce

    hi apple.. i can understand wat u r going thr cos i have also been through the whole procedure.Wat u told u hubby, i also tell mine before.And wat ur hubby says to u , my hubby also said to me before. But i have very clear answer now cos i saw the woman in my house. my advice may not be...
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    Support group - Divorce

    hi ladies... i managed to find my hubby after he got MIA after the affair was discovered. We had a good talk and we wanted to salvage the marriage. But i realised that my hb isn't sincere enuff. He told me he needed time to "sort things out" with the lady. He needs 3 mths more months...
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    Support group - Divorce

    HI pyzhang... heehee.. ur mentality is similar to my husband..but sad to say it is selfish. there is no right or wrong, but if you have the mindset of "pple like me shld stay single" u have the tendency to think " how i wish i am single".. not a very good sign for married couple. most...
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    Any Clubbers Out There?

    i would like to volunteer for the skin care but.... ... .... i am too young!!! hahahah... * hao lian around*
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    Any Clubbers Out There?

    babu.. u very a-sai hor... 3pm flight ,2.30pm leave still can? wait last call liao , u then run in ah... onzz, u char boh or tarpor? actually har gals, dua neh neh better or tiong tiong neh neh better? lets have some neh neh talk here to spice up leh
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    Any Clubbers Out There?

    wah... this thread moves so fast, i cant catch up leh. regarding the $$$ qns, hard to imagine cos i no $$$ one.. always pok gai. But if i can live comfortably and not much commitment, maybe work for fun that kind lor.. * still dreaming*
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    Any Clubbers Out There?

    babu da jie " ren liao xing bu lao" hahaha u one cycle older, meaning u 36 yrs old meh? mai ge siao. aqua, u young mummy , so envious. me no chance liao

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