Recent content by insecure_me

H how long is your friend married? If less than 3 years can only file for seperation. In any case, seek legal advice

Hi sorry to hear about your predicament. I’m also in similar situation. Hub has moved out claiming to cool off but is now checking into 2 nights staycation having a good time with her. What I don’t get is she is also married. My dilemma is CNY. I really don’t want to wait after that then file...

U unless you can tolerate such behaviors forever, then just close eye. But no guarantee he will stick with you forever too. A man who gives a woman insecurities is not worth it

Woman’s charter does not work in favor for those women who earns more than the husband. Latest update, he has moved out and staying with his parents. They tell me to give him some time. How to give when he is still happily going out with her

Hi, First of all, I would suggest you have a chat with him about your insecurities and see if he addresses them. My hub was like that when I married him and now after 11 years, I’m finally divorcing him for the same reasons because he is having affair with his colleague. He behaves like this...

Dear All Thanks for your kind advises and comfort. Today I finally confronted him. But he showed no signs of remorse. Even said you want to blow Big, let’s do it. Let’s go divo. :(

No he is working. I need another lawyer as this lawyer is telling me all negative things when I have all the evidence. If anyone has a good one to recommend, please Pm me. Hopefully it’s not too ex

Not true. My lawyer said I can’t get alimony because I earn more. Although the chance of him contesting is low but my lawyer said unless my hub is crazy to contest even tho it was him who committed adultery. The woman charter only favors woman who doesn’t work or earn less.

I’m the wife. And I earn more. But I want full care and control. So I need the money for my kids.

Thanks. I’m filing on the basis of adultery. So I thought I got a winning case for child custody and maintenance. Until the lawyer told me the judge will also divide our assets including Personal savings and cpf. I feel that this lawyer is not acting on my best interests. Anyone can share their...

Yes because he has no savings. And lawyer told me that My savings will be part of the matrimonial assets. So I got a shock. How can it be divided with him?

No Will. How do I prevent him from contesting on the division of my assets?

Yes my own personal savings. If he contest to split matrimonial assets. Cause I earn more than him but we have a joint account too which we contribute 50-50. But my personal savings is also considered matrimonial assets

Hi all I need some guidance. I went to the lawyer today and she told me that I can only have joint custody but can get full care & control. Is this true? Also, she said that the judge will determine the division of matrimonial assets including our personal savings. Does it mean I have to split...

Hi Other than the troll above, I cannot find any good advises on filing for divorce. I’ve just met my lawyer and she told me that the assets will he split according to the contribution. This includes my own personal savings. Can anyone share it this is basis on a contested divorce or is this...