Recent content by infinity0

i dont think they are the happening/handsome kinds...i think my problem is I dont usually initiate and am not the chatty kind..my ex-bf took the initiative to show interest to me, and perhaps, to other ladies as well..and I stupidly fall for him I guess. I dont think I want to change myself...

i admit that I used to check my ex-bf's phone secretly a few mths after we first dated..i guess it is curiousity and insecurity, cos my 1st bf was dating other girls behind my back. anyway, i found out that my ex-bf was also chatting up another girl and meeting her up when I checked his phone...

Hi miloice, really envy you being able to find someone to share your life with...i dont think it's that easy. i've put down my pride, i've told him i will improve myself and make efforts to strengthen the relationship..he said he despise me for doing that and texted a lot of harsh words...

hmm.. i may not be in the best state to comment, but somehow I also feel this way with my bf.. it could be that we girls have too high expectations on a boyfriend? (blame korean drama?) I dont think your bf is a selfish person; Im guessing he's a more direct person and he is not used to or he do...

Why did we even want to marry for? I think both of us yearn to have our family and a home..and maybe because of our age, we succumb to social expectations and peer pressure. Yes, this is totally not a gd reason, we did not even think through whether we are indeed right for each other. (but then...

Hi all, thanks for the thoughtful advice, especially Infernolord and Merryl. Both of us are in our early 30s..we only have an age gap of 1 year. I guess the first wrong step out was when we applied for the EC, because we are reaching the income ceiling soon (damn HDB policy).. so yes, we...

I guess so, probably none of us have the courage to be the first one to call it quits.

My fiance and I were only together for about a year, before we decide to apply for an EC and which he propose to me later on. Now, it's been a few months since he proposed to me, we decide to go to some bridal studios to check out the packages. On that day itself, he suddenly tell me that he...