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opal : ok i know what you trying to tell me, will try to compromise things with him.

opal : so if he say he need to drink daily and his limit is 1 bottle daily, so i will have to compromise & give way? if he agreed to one day in a week no beer, the problems will still persist b'cos the previous promise he make to drink alternatively, he bear a grudge saying he got no...

matka : most peoples will say beer is to "jie liang" like herbal tea. i also not sure whether if one bottle a day is it ok for health concerns, but i think drinking is not consider a good habit. if it is possible, it will be best not to drink daily.

Opal : he does not succumb to both soft or hard approach on this issue. if say so he say why he must everytime listen to me. but anyway i will use your method & see how it goes. hopefully can succeed.

He is bent on doing his own way. If i do that, he will say i am controlling him.

Actually if he don't drink beer for that day, i will buy those ready made water chestnut drink for him. I also want to cook those traditional herbal tea for him but he don't like. He is quite choosy on food and if sometime i cook something not to his liking, he will the whole plate don't touch...

My hubby say in order to clear heatiness he need to drink one bottle of beer every night. But my concern for him will be no good for health in the long run so i tell him frankly that if possible don't drink daily. And he shouted at me saying that i want to control him. Frankly speaking he...