Recent content by GreatScotch

Didn't you find out more about her before marrying her?

Thanks and best wishes to you too.

This is the ills we yield when we give girls the sense of impunity for behaving like whores. Remember the case when a 17 year old who sold her body for riches protected with a gag order? This sends the message to young girls to exploit their body while they can. And after they realise how...

You need help.

A pity only in a deluded surrealism will divorce come immediately. Letting go sometimes involve getting into another relationship while still being stuck in the doomed marriage. Clinging on to a marriage that's ended before the divorce commence by threats and using children will do neither...

You still really can't understand the concept of liberation.

I think you have difficulty understanding the concept of 'letting go what's not yours'.

Your view is overly idealistic. When your other half has seeked the comforts of another relationship indicates your other half has decided to move on. While certain attachments still shackles them to the previous relationship but the fundamentals of a relationship has been violated to...

When either of you is looking to build up another relationship already.

The only reason why an affair is justifiable is when the other party has an affair first. Unless the TS had an affair, it is unreasonable her husband is having one.

I missed my Bali trip too. Fantastic motorcycle rides and great views. But I think we won't be able to go until probably the end of 2021.

Do consider giving him space. Give him 1 month to sort things out. If he contacts you during this month then there's a chance you two can work out. But if you don't hear from him after 1 month, at least you know it's over. He knows both of you have been putting in efforts to make things work but...

I cannot fathom the obsession people have with financially crippling traditions like wedding banquets which very frequently leads to nothing but strained relationships. If money becomes the central of attention that has to be diverted to who or where because someone feels shortchanged then isn't...

Base on experience, it is clear she has found someone else and she is using you as back up in case the other side didn't work out. She can keep you warm by guilt tripping you with her accusations of your imperfections so that you remain a steady catch until the day she either takes the other...

Sounds like a textbook example of a contingency man. Just like your wife, my ex wife also cheated and was extremely creative with her excuses for cheating. I was being treated as a fall back plan while she searches for her true bf. And she readily divorced when she found him taking away a lot of...