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Thank you very much for your comments. Despite we have a age gap of 11 years, she is still a girl that need to be taken care and loved. It's just that her "boy friend" maybe a bit younger. Yes, I will stop being needy and be confident and show my caring and love to her. Let time speak the...

Thanks for the comment. Please do not tag "loser" to someone you don't know on the internet. Thanks.

Yes you are right. I think I am now a friend to her. I am not her boy friend now since she hasnt said yes. So I will lower my expectation to her. I won't mind if she pay bill separately or end WA talk early. However, I don't want us to remain in friend zone. so what should I do?

She didnt say yes or no. We went out for dinner yesterday and she refused to let me pay for her meal. I suddenly remember in the past when we were still friends, we would usually take turn to treat each other. I also remember in the past when we were in relationships, i would treat her meal...

Thanks for the reply. These timeline is my idea only. I told her abt the May proposal before we broke up and she didnt say yes or no. I had a phone call with my parents tnite, they are ok with this relationship, they advice me to communicate with her about my plan rather than just force it at...

11 years old difference relationship is rare, anyone will hesitate in this relationship because it is against tradition. So do I. But u r right, I dun have any girls that I have the feeling. Though my workplace has many single girls and I do communicate with them frequently

My plan is to proposal to her next year around May and get married around Sep next year. I will leave the company before I make proposals

When we broke up, she told me to delete her photos and chat history. I didnt delete. I dont know whether she delete or not

I asked her out this Friday night and she agreed. I want to discuss with her how we can get back to what we were. Forget about objections from the families, I want to face it up together with her. Wish me success

After a week of break up, we still look like normal friends. Today she had a full day with me. We had meetings, lunch, get off work and dinner together. It's not a date, it happened to be we r together. We still talk to each other but topics r mostly around work. We still smile at each other...

The ending of this story: We breakup today. However, it was not due to age gap or family. It was due to some very simple things such as buying gift or caring. (Although I did buy her a lot of gifts and treat her a lot in the past) I always thought a woman in her 30s should be mature enough...

Hi Infernolord, Thanks for the cheering example. I think your buddy may be mature enough to figure out what he want and made the right decision. Congratulates for him.

Yes, I know I am very naive and immature. Thanks for the advice.

Hi Nanstar, Quote from you:'To me, a marriage works base on love, trust, commitment, common goals." That's excellent comments. To be honest, I care a lot about my partner's appearances. Guess it's common in everyone's young age. I admit I don't love her enough....My apologies.

Thanks for your comment and sorry for my 3 questions. I am young and naive, that's also why I throw out these 3 questions in the internet. About what do I love about her? I guess I was attracted to her looks, her figure and her success. You are right, this is my first r/s. So guess my r/s...