Recent content by foolishguy

Hi needhelpnow, feel for you bro..take care and stay strong. By stating that you are for the long term amd Mr A is temporary means she is taking you as a safe harbour (atm) and A as a f**kboy to satisfy her own selfish lust. No point trying to rebuild your relationship as you already say she...

By coming to this forum and asking for advice..Im sure in your heart you already knew the answer. The most important thing for you now is to minimize losses and have an exit plan. Best to talk to your lawyer regarding your assets and your kid arrangement. 33 yrs old is still not too late to...

With a friend like this..who needs enemies? Best to hold on after your daughter's wedding before you move forward with the divorce...as men, our advantage is to be stoic and indifferent. Know that your heart is hurting, but hope you can hold out for your daughter as women tend to be super fussy...

Hi Mangoteen, A man is willing to pay down to his last cent for VALID causes for a good woman and his family if he is a good man. Hesitation kicks in only if he feels the other half is asking too much and not empathetic about his financial situation...in this case, he will be losing his entire...

Definitely spot on analysis by life_is, while it might not be any fault on the single mother side....the law is heavily tilted towards women and men can't do much about it except to pay... Im the one guy going thru this... everything I paid, when the time comes to split... suddenly everything...

Thanks for all the kind advise...the last place I imagine getting comfort is from an online forum... especially for guys..the stigma of dealing with loneliness, self-worth and depression is very real. Not many guy friends will want to talk about relationship problems and most will suggest...

If he can give up his 5yr relationship with his ex and also forego his marriage and come together with you... What kind of commitment do you expect from a guy like this? Sorry to say this but some people just treat relationship as a game... once sick of it will move on to new target..

Hi Rhea, Life is too short to stay on in a marriage that is dead. What I suggest that if you still want to save your marriage, talk to your husband and gave him the ultimatum. Either both of you put in effort to try to save your marriage or you will walk away. Give yourself maybe a span of 6...

Bro, As a guy that have gone thru the same ordeal as you. Although not as bad as my ex-wife having a child with another guy. I was hurt deeply emotionally and financially due to the actions of my ex-wife. Bro, first things first....DON'T HURT YOURSELF! You are a man, keep strong and keep...

Newproject, you are not wrong in saying that. I tend to be read about why people cheat nowadays...previously never really interested in it as I always have the thinking; "it won't happen to me.." Miserables _2015, my apologies if you feel that I bring my msg across too harsh...

You talk about how the guy that you knew thru using social app appreciates you...you talk about how he made you feel loved and feeling all good..in short you only talked about how you are feeling...your emotions.. Have you thought about your husband feelings? He might not be showing any more...

Hi, sorry to heard about your incident... To answer your question, your wont get the answer that you are seeking for by asking others. Throughout my marriage of 5 years, I did not entertain the thought of msging girls. Even though there was a time there was a attractive girl that tried asking...

Thanks for the encouragement bro...

After 5 months on...I feeling slightly better...Nowadays, I focus on my career and personal fitness losing more than 10kgs in the process. Emotionally, it's still tough on me. There are no emotional free passes for men. I only open up to my mum when I am feeling bouts of mini depression...

Hi cyndyblue, at this point think about that you are going to open up a can of worms. Once you have this feeling of suspicion most of the time unfortunately it's quite accurate. I used to trust my ex-wife of 5 years completely. I never locked or hid my phone or limit her outings with friends...