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    This type counter budget marry?

    Hi all, was wondering my this type issit counted as very budget? Cos kanna say by ppl i very "cat". Taiwan Photo shoot. 1)Package 2680 2)Extra Photo 1600 3)Spent in taiwan 3000 4)Delivery of things to SG 280 In SG, 1)Cake 473 2)Pig 300 3)Missillances (canned pig leg,martell etc)...
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    Duties of Ah Yees & Brothers on Wedding Day?

    me also need, can have one, thanks in advance [email protected]
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    Help, what should i do?

    Thanks all, i think i just go up, say no $, the best is like this nia. Once again, thanks all for your kind viewpoints, i really learn alot. Appreciated. Err.. how to find mods to delete thread?
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    Help, what should i do?

    Lastly> During the time when i starting went in jail period. Someone ask my "partner" why both of us know will go jail still go buy HDB. Directly saying me is wrong, no brain, instead got some cursing, blamed me for 害 the female etc.(the someone still dunno why/what happen yet) Answer...
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    Help, what should i do?

    @doll: Hehe, some time i also very wishy washy de..sometime also not decisive enough cos my decision can hurt others. @matka: You do not know my partner, i ask her to leave years back b4 all this happen, she want commit suicide..what u want me to do? (dun be mistaken that i marry her due to...
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    Help, what should i do?

    @Milo: Ya, i know what you mean, is cos i do not want to badmouth them so much into details mah. Not really dramtize it, actual facts>> Reason for the 4rm flat started from>> Her mother say loud loud on escalator towards B1 at Jurong Point 2, pointing at me> only want to f*ck my dughter...
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    Help, what should i do?

    @Milo: All along i know her mother is that type of person, say 1 thing do another thing, or abit 先斩åŽå¥type. She may do things that show good but underneth it, what she think we never know, so i try to look on positive side.(Actual fact is i think more of bad said lah). Since long ago, i...
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    Help, what should i do?

    @junkie: will not dump her, in business wise, i lose out even more due to hv to pay fines to HDB & not getting the 4rm flat. To me, marry is lose $ (old traditions is actually couple throw party for all, all come to enjoy & share the joy event, no need gv red packets). NOW many people...
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    Help, what should i do?

    Future MIL also say no need ask match maker come, (help me save $). Do easy way liao. So which is why i need a good way to explain/discuss regarding the traditions. I am already bloody lucky to hv such good future MIL. i dun want to go then say {those are for other tradition why you say...
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    Help, what should i do?

    @junkie: i meant all thouse golds will be passed to my child; grandchild. @Lee:Nope, $ issue never complain(i try to do within my means), till date i only complain is hv to drive round to her side send the cakes..her family if sent all family cakes is coming 100 piece of cake. @denis80...
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    Help, what should i do?

    @junkie: 对阿,我们也想进本分,但就因为我家ç»æµŽæœ‰ä¸€äº›é—®é¢˜ã€‚ é€å°æ ·æˆ–ä¸åŒä¸œè¥¿ã€‰å¥³æ–¹å®¶äººåˆä¹±è¯´è¯ã€‚ 现在开始ç«è¯å‘³ä¸Šå‡ã€‰ 女方å¯ä»¥è¯´ã€‰ä¸ºå­™å…†æƒ³ã€‚。为女儿想, 站在他人立场是对的。 我父亲也是个è€å¤æ¿...
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    Help, what should i do?

    @Ting Yi: Yup, for me i try to do wat ever i can, just like when my future wife last time aim rolex, i also buy for her when i have enough $. Issue started when my parent heard (i male), heard both item needed, they maybe have the impression that female side ask for too many things, or not...
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    Help, what should i do?

    Hi all, new here. Well, long story short. **i read from many place say>> Bride side requesting (base on tradition)... Canto ask for dragon + pheonix bangles. Teochew ask for 4 dot gold Hokkien ask for "big & small yuan" + a pair of bangles. My issue is this> Wife's parents...

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