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    Anyone have success stories after an infidelity?

    I don't know what's your story like. But, if your hubby ever betrayed And till now he still think that it's ok that man has more than one Wife as Long as he financially can afford it, I highly likely think that as Long as he has the money, he will find opportunity to keep a Mistress in future...
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    Anyone have success stories after an infidelity?

    Hi serene, My case I won't say he is doing all those now cos even when he strayed, he didn't treat me badly.he was still quite concern about me and Even help with housework and kid etc. Yes he was more distracted and maybe a little less patient with me as compared to Pak tor days but generally...
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    Anyone have success stories after an infidelity?

    The only advice that I confirm will never go wrong And no one will ever contest is, to save more money for yourself And love yourself more. I just watched a talkshow from channel u And they were talking about massage parlours and prostitution in Singapore. Many uncles visit those prostitutes And...
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    Anyone have success stories after an infidelity?

    Mine is one year 7 months already. Not as much pain as before. Bitter on and off still Yes. Actually we won't know its happy story from now on cos they can still stray after like 8 or even 10 years. So I can only say, my story, yah is kinda peaceful and considered happy at the moment. Not sure...
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    Anyone have success stories after an infidelity?

    Hope he is not fooling outside anymore? Are you stil watching him? Since you have no kids, please take longer to observe before you ever commit to one.
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    Divorce or Separation Questions - need advice

    Hi cath_rina, Of course it's not your fault that he is unemployed. I m sure he proposed partly because he loves you. It takes two to get married, you mentioned that he can't handle the marriage. Do you remember yourself saying the marriage vows? Do you remember the vows: To Bride Will you...
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    Divorce or Separation Questions - need advice

    I read your post but I am a third party who isn't directly involved in your marriage so I won't judge. However, I hope that you can at least take a step back and look at your hubby as another human being. If you really cannot stand him anymore and don't love him anymore, of course you can choose...
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    checking BF/husband handphone

    In a way, it's a blessing in disguise that you didn't marry these guys and end up going through the more painful process of divorcing or worse when children are involved. I regretted not checking up on my hubby when we were dating. I think these guys are just greedy. They found someone whom they...
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    checking BF/husband handphone

    Thanks for your insight. Totally understand. But when involves kids and when the strayed partner wants to salvage a marriage And allow the spouse to track them. I think it becomes a security measure for the spouse to feel safe and at ease, to be able to pass by the Everyday without imagining too...
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    checking BF/husband handphone

    Can understand your worry and insecurity. Also can understand why he is upset with your checking. Maybe for someone who hasn't proven to be a cheater, instead of checking secretly, you can voice out to him that you are feeling a bit insecure and it would be nice that he could help you to feel...
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    checking BF/husband handphone

    Hi thank you for your input too. For my case, I feel that privacy and trust is given to him at the start. He betrayed, means he is no longer enjoying that privacy or trust from me, if he wants the relationship back. I think to give up his privacy is part of his effort to show that he can be...
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    checking BF/husband handphone

    No offence to your opinion but my thinking is the direct opposite. If you ever have a spouse who cheated, all the more need a spyware. Precisely they already proven that their words are not trustworthy (that's why we don't trust them. And since they ready cheated, proven that our judgement is...
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    checking BF/husband handphone

    Thanks for your input. So I need to register an account with them? Meaning this account is for me to log in in future to see the activity in the target phones? Can the activities And locations be stored for a period of time? meaning if I log in weekly, I can still see the activities and...
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    checking BF/husband handphone

    How good? Isit easy to install? You use it on your bf/hubby/children/your employee?
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    Prostitutes

    Hi, thank you very much for this reply. It's heartening to know that there are cases of cheating with prostitutes but doesn't lead to divorce and thrived after that. Yes I understand what you mean. When I ask, I m referring to marriages that thrive, meaning the cheater is truly repentent and the...

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