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    No sex for more than 6mths leads hubby to....

    it's not sick lar.. jus like some guys like to look at girls leg, some guys like to look at girls waist. everybody is different. not everybody like to look at women's boob at first look one mar. my bf sometimes also look at picture to masturbate. sometimes he look at porn. no wrong wad. as...
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    No sex for more than 6mths leads hubby to....

    maybe u should tink thru wad u wan. him masturbating is wrong? wad abt him finding another girl? even more wrong. force you to haf sex? call him rape then. so wad can he do? b monk lor..
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    Single Mum entittlement?

    kahlen, have thought of going to turn to the pregnancy crsis before.but not sure what should i turn to them for.
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    Single Mum entittlement?

    i will tell them around 4th or 5th month i guess. nw is too earli and i dun wan them to give me that look or even suggest that i abort, as it is too much for me to take. definitely to them, they think abortion is the best way out for me. but it is only a short term relief. nobody knows what will...
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    Single Mum entittlement?

    blur, sad to hear about your colleague case. jus cross my fingers and hope that i will be able to get my rights. am trying to enjoy my pregnancy. LOL. but guess, being a single mum not onli prove to be tough, but there's also alot of stuff that u need to worriew.
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    Single Mum entittlement?

    im actualli abit worried. my friend also told me that her colleague, even thou married, was asked to go on unpaid leave also. that is the problem with the small company and empolyee who is unsure of the entittlemnt they are given for. for me, as mine is a half government, so i dun tink they...
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    Single Mum entittlement?

    copied from MOM webbie: The Children Development Co-Savings Act cover all parents of Singapore Citizens, including managerial, executive or confidential staff. Under the Children Development Co-Savings Act, an employee is entitled to maternity leave benefits if: i) The child is a...
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    Single Mum entittlement?

    copied from the website 33 had given: I am a single/unmarried mother of a Singaporean child. Apart from this, I meet all the other eligibility criteria for maternity leave. Am I eligible for the extended Government-Paid Maternity Leave? No, you will not be eligible for government-paid...
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    Single Mum entittlement?

    but MOM do state so in the webbie. so if they dun give, im sure that we can prove to them via the MOM website? i dun wish to get married to a jerk jus bcos of a child. no point in spending the money for divorce in the future.
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    Single Mum entittlement?

    i didnt let my company nor paretns know, hence, didnt seek advise. previously i went to MOM website. they stated clearly that single mum is entittled to 8 weeks paid maternity leave. went to the website that 33 had given as above, and prove that yes, im entittled to 8 weeks paid maternity...
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    Depressed

    you have a failed marriage, and u should know even better. will this relationship realli work out? yes, he may love u. but mayb he love someting else more then he realli love u? jus like my previous bf. he love me. but he love himself more then he love me. everiting he does is to put his own...
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    Worried that i am pregnant

    i missed mine 1 day and i tested positive. dun have to wait for so long. it states the moment u miss ur menses, u can get tested. it's just tat it may be not so obvious line stated. just a faint line, and u can go to a doc to double confirm. as sometimes the pregnancy jus started hence it is a...
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    Single Mum entittlement?

    Hi, can anybody advise is there any entittlement for single mum for maternity leave? as i read in MOM website it state that single mum is entittled to 2 months maternity leave? however i tried to browse around but cant find anymore info. also would like to check whether there's any help...
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    What do you normally do at night?

    milo: think what u say make sense. but for beginner how to cook without making a big mess huh? haha. because i really don't know and me and bf is the kind that is damn lazy to cook. maybe once in a while then will suddenly feel like cooking. but the aftermaths make us hold back. sometimes i...
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    What do you normally do at night?

    this is: i wish one dae me and bf can bcome wad u and ur husband is now! dreaming. hahas. envy you and ur husband! milo: i does not know how to cook. ask him to teach me he sae tired dun wan -.- then i go online find receipe try liaos sae wan cook for him he sae dun wan, he dun like to eat...

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