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    Too soon to get married?

    My latest post above was sent too quick. It was incomplete. It should read:        Argumentum ad hominem is one distasteful method to argue or present one's point. It reflects poorly on one's ability to present or argue logically, impartially and to stick to the subject matter concerned...
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    Too soon to get married?

    Argumentum ad hominem is one distasteful method to argue or present one's point. It reflects poorly on one's ability to present or argue logically, impartially and to stick to the subject matter concerned. Abusive ad hominem reflects one's inclination to lean on using personal attacks to present...
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    Too soon to get married?

    Argumentum ad hominem is one distasteful method to argue or present one's point. It reflects poorly on one's ability to present or argue logically, impartially and to stick to the subject matter concerned. Abusive ad hominem reflects one's inclination to lean on using personal attacks to present...
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    Any good orthopaedic doctor to follow?

    Hello sunny day, There is another good Ortho Surgeon at CGH A/P Low Cheng Ooi. But I don't know him that well as Lam. He did a carpel tunnel release for one of my relatives. Procedure very well done.
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    Any good orthopaedic doctor to follow?

    Hello sunnyday, I would strongly recommend Dr Lam Khee Sien from CGH. He is an Ortho Surgeon. Very nice guy and very good doctor. My family sees him. You would need to pay private rate to see him, though. Which is around $80+ for first consult excluding medication and labwork if any...
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    What should I do?

    Hello James, I PM-ed you but have not gotten a reply. Have you received it? It's important (Jess).
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    Too soon to get married?

    Of Children: I assume, Doraemon, that you are local and Asian, so it is usual to settle down and go the family way. Our families and society also have such expectations of us. But let me share with you a perspective: Unless you and you spouse simply love and adore children, they are more a...
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    Too soon to get married?

    Hello Doraemon,  Of IVF etc: If in future, you both decide to settle down, and natural methods of conceiving is not working, there are medical methods to help such as IVF etc. Typically for a woman age 35, the success rate of IVF is 28-30%. For a woman age 40, success rate of IVF is...
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    Too soon to get married?

    Hello Doraemon,  Someone once told me "don't put the cart in front of the horse". Don't be rushed into a marriage till you are ready. Your coming into this forum to post shows you are not ready to take this step. To some, 5 months is enough (which in my opinion is still too short), but to...
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    What should I do?

    Hello James, I am so happy to hear that he said that after just one counselling session :D .... If you think it will work out for both of you and you both want to work out the relationship, then I am very glad for you. Sincerely. My earlier suggestions to you on this thread might sound a bit...
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    What should I do?

    Lee,  I suggested stay in the house - don't shift: As a loving husband, will you aim to move your pregnant wife and yourself out of your own 3 room private apartment and do a rental to target moving date before wedding day? The man himself revealed his concerns why he is doing that. My...
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    What should I do?

    Lee, The SG family law favours men, and is unfavourable to women. The women here, unlike in States or other countries, do not have half of the man's assets upon divorce or whatsoever. Here in SG, for a 30 year old marriage of a housewife who earns $0 a month all her life, illiterate, raise...
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    What should I do?

    Hello James, correction. 14 weeks is second tri and abortion is still an option in Singapore, though 2nd tri abortions are more complicated, invasive and risks are higher. For 16 weeks of 2nd tri and after, the procedures used are yet different and even more invasive. 3rd trimester abortions...
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    What should I do?

    Hello James, I just sent you 2 msgs on contacts. Have you received them?
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    What should I do?

    Hello James, 14 weeks is second trimester. Abortion might not be a viable option for you. Yes, I would suggest not to enter marriage unless issues like these are resolved. Good luck!

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