Hi all, i'm in a dilema. my in laws have intention of moving into our house in 2 - 3 months time. however, once they moved in, there will be no more rooms if we have children in future. i really dislike the idea of giving up my freedom and 'er ren shi jie' for them and no one is bothered about the fact that i'll be approaching 30 years old soon and we should start planning a family of our own. my husband is 'anything' type and he said maybe we will have more money in future and can buy a bigger house, but his plan and money kind of thing is not definite, at least not for now. currently in laws rent a room outside, but mil always complain the landlord used up her shampoo n etc and how she can't wait to move in to stay with us. once when we chatted, i told her that impossible to have children coz no more rooms after they moved in, and she just say will 'see how'... it's like no one will take charge of the situation or care if i would want to have my own children soon. is it very selfish of me to want to get pregnant within this 2 months so that i can have the excuse not to let them move in? coz i dun think once they move in, they will say they wanna move out so that we can have kids, most likely they will say 'wait until got kids then see how'... and husband most likely won't want to have children once they moved in coz in laws will have no place to stay... but if pregnant then house cannot do any shifting of things, and in that case, how will they be able to move out during my pregnancy? then in that case, no place for a baby or babies? so should i take action now and pray hard for a baby so that all problems solved?