Master David Tong's Advice Corner (Geomancy and Fengshui)


cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Petallz

1. Sorry for this silly question. Can I know what if we never An Chuan or postpone after the wedding when we have a house? What will happen?

An Chuang is our Chinese custom to symbolise lots of children. It is a custom, doesn't mean if you don't do means no kids

2. My best friend is also getting married next year. Is it right that we have to keep our weddings 100 days apart?

Yes correct
3. "The 100 days apart", is it applicable to ROM or gatecrash or church or wedding banquet? (Sorry to ask this question in such a weird way. This is because that I may be having different events on different days to pace it out and we only want a Sunday banquet and most Church weddings are usually offered on Saturdays only. So, we may want to have it on 2-3 different days.)

All. So long it is a red event, the 100 days rule apply. so the more you split, the more you have to consider.

4. As I may be having different events on different days, how many wedding dates do I need? Which one is counted under the Chinese customs?

ROM and Customary. Customary is the date you serve tea to parents.
 
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canniechanky

Member
Hi Master Tong,

I would like to ask regarding whether 11 / 11 / 2016 Friday, is a good date for wedding?

My zodiac (bride): 15/11/1988 dragon
Groom: 21/06/1976 Dragon
Bride mom: Monkey 1956
Bride dad: dragon 1952
Groom mum: ox 1949
Groom dad: snake 1941

Thank you so much, Master Tong :)
 
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polaris_qq

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

I would like to check if 26 Nov 2016 is a good date for wedding?

My zodiac (bride): 27/08/1987 rabbit
Groom: 27/06/1986 tiger
Bride mom: Monkey 1956
Bride dad: Rooster 1957
Groom mum: Rooster 1957
Groom dad: Rabbit 1951

Thank you!
 
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antiseptic

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Could you advise if 2 July or 3 July 2016 is good for weddings?

Groom: Pig
Bride: Goat

Groom Dad: Pig
Groom Mum: Ox
Groom Bro: Dragon

Bride Dad: Ox
Bride Mum: Dragon
Bride Bro: Rooster

If the 2 dates are not suitable, could you advise on other suitable weekend dates in the second half of the 2016?

Thank you.
 
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ahgongbeast

New Member
cmg_consulting said:
Hi ahgongbeast

April is qing ming no dates. let me know exactly which mth you looking at
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Hi Master Tong,

Thank you for your reply.

I would like to check with you from May to December 2016, which 3 months are good for holding wedding solemnization cum wedding banquet?
Appreciate if you can provide a weekend date for each month. Thanks for your help and time.

Groom: Rat (1984)
Bride: Rabbit (1987)

Groom's mom: passed away
Groom's dad: Dragon

Bride's Father : Dog
Bride's Mom: Cow
 
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Superxyz

Member
Hi Master Tong,

We are planning to hold ROM together with tea ceremony and lunch/dinner banquet in end 2016.

Could you advise us of auspicious wedding dates between sept 2016 - dec 2016, preferably on weekends.

Here are our details:
Groom and bride: both are snake 1989

Groom father: rat (1960)
Groom mother: Ox (1961)
Groom brother: tiger (1986)

Bride father: goat (1955)
Bride mother: horse (1954)
Bride brother: rat (1996)

Also, one of my cousin is holding tea ceremony in 2016. Would this clash even if we do not attend each other wedding?

Thank u!
 
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wanytan

Member
Hi master tong, my wedding is on 12 nov 2016, may i know what is the auspicious timing to fetch the bride?
Thanks

Bride : rabbit (1987)
Groom : horse (1978)
Bride mum : ox
Bride dad : rooster
Groom mum :rabbit
 
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Petallz

New Member
cmg_consulting said:
Hi Petallz

1. Sorry for this silly question. Can I know what if we never An Chuan or postpone after the wedding when we have a house? What will happen?

An Chuang is our Chinese custom to symbolise lots of children. It is a custom, doesn't mean if you don't do means no kids

2. My best friend is also getting married next year. Is it right that we have to keep our weddings 100 days apart?

Yes correct
3. "The 100 days apart", is it applicable to ROM or gatecrash or church or wedding banquet? (Sorry to ask this question in such a weird way. This is because that I may be having different events on different days to pace it out and we only want a Sunday banquet and most Church weddings are usually offered on Saturdays only. So, we may want to have it on 2-3 different days.)

All. So long it is a red event, the 100 days rule apply. so the more you split, the more you have to consider.

4. As I may be having different events on different days, how many wedding dates do I need? Which one is counted under the Chinese customs?

ROM and Customary. Customary is the date you serve tea to parents.
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Hi Master Tong,

Thanks for the reply!

Is it true that the couples should not meet a day before the wedding?

If I am planning the church wedding/ROM on Sat, and follow by banquet on Sunday, is it possible?

Thanks!
 
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TT999

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

We need your expert advice. We are going to get married in 2016. What dates are good for us? Please advise us several dates on weekends.

1. 14 February 2016
2. 19 or 20, 21 Feb 2016
3. 27 or 28 February 2016

Groom: 31 Dec 1981 (rooster)
Bride: 20 June 1982 (dog)

Groom's dad: passed away
Groom's mom: passed away

Bride's dad: 27 Sept 1960 (rat)
Bride's mom: 8 March 1962 (tiger)

My brother 22 April 1985 (ox) is getting married in 25 sept 2016

Thank you in advance..
 
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peejay

New Member
Hi Master Tong,
Would like to know any dates in from Nov to Dec 2016 weekends good for customary. Was looking also at 19th June 2016. is this a good day for us? Thanks

Groom : 1984 ( Rat)
Bride : 1989 (Snake)

Groom's father : passed away
Groom's mother : 1956 (monkey)

Bride's father : 1950 (tiger)
Bride's mother: 1954 (Horse)

thank You!
 
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kathybaby

New Member
cmg_consulting said:
Hi Happygirlgirl,

Yes you can still select your wedding dates using a combination of other date selection techniques as well as both you and your spouse's Bazi. In fact, for wedding dates selection, the Bazi for both of you has to be taken into consideration. This is very important as date selection using Bazi (in combination with other techniques) is much more precise than using the Tong Shu alone, which is very generic. And with this method, we can select dates for ANY year, including 2010 dates, which is very popular now since most of the auspicious 2009 weekend dates are now almost fully booked if you are signing up with hotels.

Hope this helps
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How can i have your contact number?
 
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lynlai

New Member
Hi Master Tong!

We are planning to hold ROM together with tea ceremony and lunch banquet in end 2016.

Could you advise us of auspicious wedding dates between Nov 2016 - Feb 2017, preferably on weekends.

Here are our details:
Groom: Sheep (1980)
Bride: Dog (1982)

Groom father: Dragon (1952)
Groom mother: Dog 1958
Groom brother: Dog 1982

Bride father: Ox (1949)
Bride mother: Rabbit (1951)
Bride sister: Dragon (1988)

THANK YOU!!!
 
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Shoogal

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Would like to check whether the date 17 September 2016 is a good date for marriage.

Groom : 28 Nov 1977 0045 hr Snake
Groom Father : 30 Dec 1953 Snake
Groom Mother : 9 Apr 1952 Dragon

Bride : 27 Nov 1976 1303 hr Dragon
Bride Father : 2 Jan 1949 Rat
Bride Mother : 21 Sep 1948 Rat

Thank you!
Shoo
 
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lizz0901

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

My partner and I are looking to get married in 2016. We are actually got a date for our wedding which is on 25/9/16.May I know is this ok?Is there any crash?

Groom:1986(Tiger)
Groom's Dad:1965(Snake)
Groom Mother:1961(Ox)

Bride:1990(Horse)
Bride's Dad:1958(Dog)
Bride's Mom:1963(Rabbit)

Thank you for your time.
 
Roxyjas

Roxyjas

New Member
Her(bride):
己丁己庚
酉丑卯午

Him(groom):
壬壬丁丁
子戌未卯

Bride's:
Mum: 1956 monkey
Dad: 1951 rabbit

Groom's:
Mum: 1958 dog
Dad: 1956 monkey

Can help us choose auspicious wedding dates in first half of 2017 (March- may)

As well as move in to new bto dates in second half of 2016 (June to December). Thank you so much for your help:) we really appreciate it if you can help us.
 
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jx77

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

We are planning to hold ROM and Wedding Dinner on 2 different dates. Could you advise us of auspicious wedding dates & time

a) ROM during March 2016 or June 2016

b) Wedding Dinner between (Nov 2016 till Jan 2017) – Preferably on Saturday

c) BTO [in second half of 2016 (June to December)]

d) An Chuan


Groom : 05 Oct 1977 Snake
Groom Father : 13 Jan 1940 Rabbit
Groom Mother : 9Jul 1944 Monkey


Bride : 10 Aug 1982 Dog
Bride Father : Require?
Bride Mother : Require?

Thanks in Advance….
 
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jx77

New Member
Hi Master Tong

please ignored the earlier post... I have amend something....


We are planning to hold ROM and Wedding Dinner on 2 different dates. Could you advise us of auspicious wedding dates & time

a) ROM during March 2016 or June 2016

b) Wedding Dinner between (Nov 2016 till Jan 2017) – Preferably on Saturday

c) BTO [in second half of 2016 (June to December)]

d) An Chuan


Groom : 05 Oct 1977 Snake
Groom Father : 13 Jan 1940 Rabbit
Groom Mother : 9Jul 1944 Monkey


Bride : 10 Aug 1982 Dog
Bride Father : 1956 (Monkey)
Bride Mother : 1955 (Goat)

Thanks in Advance….
 
cmg_consulting

cmg_consulting

Active Member
Hi Petallz

Is it true that the couples should not meet a day before the wedding?

>>Yes this is an old tradition. Some don't practice nowadays, so it really depends on you ;)
If I am planning the church wedding/ROM on Sat, and follow by banquet on Sunday, is it possible?

>>yes no problem. ideally both on gd date. If not possible, then the ROM on a better date
 
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jiejieningning

Member
Hi master tong,

We are planning to hold our rom in March 2016. Any weekdays date is good?

Our customary we are planning to hold on 24th Dec 2016. Is it a good date?

Bride: 12 Oct 1991 (goat)
Bride dad: 1961 (cow)
Bride mum: 1964 (dragon)

Groom: 10th Jan 1989 (dragon)
Groom mum and dad (rabbit)

Thank you in advance!!
 
Roxyjas

Roxyjas

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

If based on bazi (in my earlier post) what are the good dates in first half of 2017 for wedding? Thanks!

As well as bto move in dates in second half of 2016! Thanks!
 
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Alexis23

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Need to seek your assistance for a date with my bf on ROM date in Jan 2016 (prefer

Bride - 31/05/83 Pig
Bride mother - 06/03/62 Tiger

Groom - 06/09/82 Dog
Groom mother - 12/08/53 Snake
Groom father - 16/08/46 Dog

Hope to hear from you soon
 
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catgirl22

New Member
Hi Master Tong,

Just want to know the general good dates in March 2016 for ROM and Wedding

Groom: Snake (1989)
Groom's parents: Snake

Bride: Rabbit
Bride's parents: Both monkeys

Thank you!!
 


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antiseptic

New Member
cmg_consulting said:
Hi antiseptic

3rd jul is a general good date but it clashes to Dragon (bride mum), hence cannot be used
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Hi Master Tong,

Can u advise if there are any good weekend dates from Jul to Dec 2016 that doesnt clash?

Groom: Pig
Bride: Goat

Groom Dad: Pig
Groom Mum: Ox
Groom Bro: Dragon

Bride Dad: Ox
Bride Mum: Dragon
Bride Bro: Rooster

Thanks.
 
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