I feel like dying


traciee

Active Member
While those out there who really wants to live (due to sickness etc) but unfortunately are unable to do so, you are thinking the other way round.

Cherish your life please. You only live once.
 

Georgian

New Member
Yes life precious and dead does not solve any problem, I agree 100%. But there can be situation in life when all the chips are down, wherever you turn to, life looks bleak.... Posting here is a good first step to seek help, get opinion, better still if you can confide in someone you know and trust well, or seek professional help who are trained to give you a good listening ear:
Samaritans of Singapore (SOS): 1800 221 4444
 

gene.snit

Member
Why do you want to die? Im sure anything can be solved. If you post here I'm sure that means you decided to give us a chance to save you. Please think of the people who loves and care for you.
 

gene.snit

Member
@novembermountain, i read about your predicament in another thread. I'm truly sorry about you separation & your lost love. move on from the experience. so what you lost them? I'm sure you could live well and healthy without men in your life. Talk to somebody . if you don't have any1 to talk with you may PM me anytime and we could talk. :) You are definitely not gullible you are a very good person. you got a very adorable son waiting for you to love him. i pray for you ok?
 

leemei04140414

New Member
Hi, I am sorry but I have to say this. Is that how you should behave as a mother? If you think u had a terrible life, what about others?
My mother got a divorce from my father when I was 10 years old. My father left us in this shit and my mother worked 12 hours a day to bring the 3 of us up. She slept for only a few hours because she needs to prepare us for school,our breakfast,lunch and dinner while she had bread only.she refused to remarry bcos she was worried that our future stepfather might not be good towards us.
We lived in rental room -4 of us staying in a rented room for 10 years before my mum saved enough and managed to get a bto flat.
Yes. If only, we have a man in life, life will be complete but dont forget, you life is complete because you have a son with you. Your Mr right will appear soon if you are patient enough. If he doesnt appear, thats bcos god* is trying to save u from all misery. Be brave and face your life. One day you will look back and say, thanks god, I am alive.
 

miloice

Well-Known Member
There is more in life than your love life! Think about all your friends, family and parents. Personally, no break up hurt me more than situation of my parents. Some regrets, we have to face and accept it. It will be there for life. I missed the last chance to see my dad, a regret I live with for the rest of my life, I can only appreciate my family more and learn this lesson well. What don't kill u WILL make you stronger.

Don't even think about taking your life, we are all vulnerable and emotional, such thoughts is very dangerous and it only take a moment to snap and lose it.
 

meimei1601

Member
I have the same thgs as you have, thinking of what happened, my death contribute more advantage than disadvantages. But die cannot solve the problem. I am not sure what happen, but escaping it is definately more easy than solving it. Wound will heal over time scars remain to learn from mistake. I love my the one I ever love, I lost a child that the father dont even acknowledge, I lost those friends who I thg is my friend, I lost direction on everything that I thg I was on the right track. But dying would make me any happier, just end the thgs we have. We are emotional. But what is emotion? Its our thoughts. We need to sort things out. Dont love others to live, Love yourself to live. If U love once, you can love again. Life may not be fantastic, but its only can live once. Bear for a few more years.. and u realise you might not have enough to enought them.

When you feel sad, Cry, If you wanna talk to someone, find someone to talk about, look for help. Write it out. Or here... We are all reading, we all understand. :D
 

Rachel Lee

New Member
See dear! Life is full of ups and downs. I don't know what exactly happened with you. But in this world everybody have good as well as bad times. You may feel that it is you only who is the most distressed one, but is not always true. Few months back I was also surrounded by a great grief and sorrow as my relationship was broken. At that time I felt that I must end my life as there was nothing else left for me. But, dear we don't come alone in this world. There are many people who have a bonding with us like our parents. At that time I thought about them that how much they love me and how much shock they will get from any wrong decision of mine.
Life doesn't ends without a single person. Think about your dreams, your aims, your responsibilities. Live for nobody but for yourself at least. How the world is depends on how you want to see it.
 

pinkpetter

Member
Good to hear that you are better.

Our challenges in life and circumstances are all different. I can't tell you how hard your life or my life is, and certainly shouldn't compare. Our threshold to take on challenges differ too. But one thing is true. We're never alone, even when we think we are. We just have to believe we have the means to overcome all obstacles for the sake of our loved ones. We can do this.

*hugs*
 

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